spiritgurl posted:any new topics coming for this Breezy? sg
raisedbywolves posted:Hey all, I'm awfully new here but here are some random thoughts anyway.
RBW posted:1. I'm really impressed by the tone of the discussion here. It gives a whole new meaning to the word "mature" - oh no, wait, this IS what mature used to mean before it became a nice word for obscene! Some of the stories that have been shared were heart-wrenching. Very brave
RBW posted:2. If you ask me, characters can surely be as pure as new snow. Even if they are played by Attractive Men With Accents... If all Jedi were constantly having affairs, at some point Yoda and the gang would've given up their prudish rules and started handing out the free contraceptives. In my own little GFFA, they take their vows awfully seriously.
RBW posted:3. Let's face it: All adolescents have a sexual awakening at one point or another. And for all bookwormish adolescents, that's just gonna have to involve finding a steamy scene in some book or story when they weren't looking for it. Put your love scenes up here, and you are automatically taking the risk that you're introducing a kid to this aspect of adult life. Period.
RBW posted:4. If you have qualms about that, here's one thing to consider... if the scene is loving, tender and consensual, you may be doing someone a favor with it. My first experience with sex scenes in books was while reading Clan of the Cave Bear, and YUCK . Lots of disturbing rape in that one people, not good for 13-year-old psyche!! I think it took me a month to stop looking at the opposite sex as a threat. The process of realizing that boys can be your friends involved reading some love scenes that were respectful to the woman involved and very positive.
RBW posted:5. Oh, so that's why there are no gay characters. I was really starting to wonder. I know this isn't the place to discuss the rules, but that's very, very sad. For one thing, that could be steering gay kids to some stories they really don't want to be reading. Sigh.
RBW posted:Anyway, moving on to the actual topic!! It's real good. All that thinking *points at rest of post* really wore my brain out though, so I'll watch and jump in later.