JCC My Fiance dumped me

I maintain that no one should, under any circumstances, get married before the age of 30 (consequent, of course, of the magical forces) and that I have never, ever rubbed Valyn in any way.

 

fwiw, I completely agree with lexu... I also don't think anybody should even think about marriage until they've been together for at least five years.

 

getting married is fun. people should do it more often. you can always get divorced if it doesn't work out. it costs a few dollars.

 

just one or two bucks, nothing substantial.

 

if you're both poor and don't get any lawyers involved anyway. if you are rich you should probably not get married ever though.

 

If you're rich enough to afford a pre-nup then I don't see the problem.

 

If you're rich you have to get married so your spouse isn't forced to testify about you hunting people for sport on your private island.

 

Also because overpriced flowers and aisle runners are a really good way to get rid of that pesky money you have lying around.

 

if i were rich it would be only the best disney princess cruise ship weddings for me.

 

This reminds me that Facebook has informed me that a certain JCCer had a Disney cruise ship wedding recently and it wasn't the one you would expect.

 

Why, Darth Guy, I had no idea.

 

Yeah, my dream was a Goldman Sachs theme, but 'cause that's not a thing I went with the next best soulless corporate wedding.

 

I would have thought he'd have a Roman themed one.

 

Maybe Lexu's just right, Valyn. As opposed to your good self, who I'm sorry to say, isn't.

 

points for using the phrase "as ____ is wont to do", tho

 

Or "As is _____'s wont"? I would give points for both. Just checking we agree?

 

I mean, if you're going to spend the rest of your lives together, is five years really all that long in comparison?

 

I'm with Frieda, don't believe in a set minimum of time. I met my wife in 1997, she moved to New York in 1998, we were in engaged in 1999, married in 2000. What's more important, imo, is how that time is spent. the bigger mistake, ímo, is not spending enough time in the "real world" together, eg after college.

 

Probably there are people out there who do one thing and fail, and others who do that same thing and are successful; probably there are people who do something totally different than the thing those other people are doing and they are also successful, and others who are not.

People have different approaches to relationships. I find this shocking.

 

nvm - thought this was about a Cleveland Steamer, but I see I misread the title.

 

How is this thread still going?

 

Why did I get made fun of for posting some personal opinions/history, when others are/have done the same?

 

Do you not understand how a message board works or