Arguably, cultured posts of poor quality are a greater disruption to the board than flames in responses of higher quality. The former is, in my experience, the true provocation for flames that follow, which is actually mostly related to disbelief in the flamer's mind anyone can be that stupid. The latter is actually an attempt to restore order to the board.
Ris_jSarek posted:That's a very good idea. The thing is, if you treat anyone in such a rough-handed manner that a reasonable person in their place would choose to leave, you've gone too far.
Sarek posted:Borleias (you wrote a lot, so I'm going to do some snipping for my own sanity if nothing else):
Sarek posted:I'd take this as a representative of this board's general view of flaming, which seems to be categorized as more important than having something useful to contribute. This is an attitude I genuinely do not understand. Well, from my point of view, it *is* more important. Civility fosters communication that is more likely to inspire useful contributions. If civility is absent, people are discouraged from contributing useful ideas to the board. If you have civility without useful contributions, you at least have a community that's poised to accept useful contributions when they come along. If you have useful contributions without civility, you will soon be without either.
Sarek posted:Arguably, cultured posts of poor quality are a greater disruption to the board than flames in responses of higher quality. The former is, in my experience, the true provocation for flames that follow, which is actually mostly related to disbelief in the flamer's mind anyone can be that stupid. The latter is actually an attempt to restore order to the board. The thing is, plenty of people ARE that stupid - and stupider, even. Others just have a different viewpoint that frames things in such a radically different way that they don't seem coherent to one's own viewpoint. The former will never get smarter if they're driven away by the informed people; the latter will never be able to contribute their unique viewpoint if they're driven away before they can find a way to communicate it effectively to the board.
Sarek posted:As far as I'm concerned, it would take an egregiously persistent poster of inane content to even make a mod think of banning him or her; there *does* come a point where raw idiocy can kill a board when applied with too much frequency.
Sarek posted:However, even bad content can be the springboard for good ideas; and corrected bad content sometimes brings a poster up to a level where they can contribute effectively to an insightful discussion.
Sarek posted:Those few, of course, are those willing to tell you unpleasant truths in a pleasant manner. ;-)
GrandAdmiralJello posted:Borleias: Can I just say that I laughed out loud when you started your post with "I disagree" at a seemingly innocuous comment of mine. It's just funny how we're almost never on the same side.
Jello posted:Arguably, cultured posts of poor quality are a greater disruption to the board than flames in responses of higher quality. The former is, in my experience, the true provocation for flames that follow, which is actually mostly related to disbelief in the flamer's mind anyone can be that stupid. The latter is actually an attempt to restore order to the board.
Havac posted:Both sides have been at fault in this -- that's why I'm looking for pledges from everyone. However, the point that if you disagree with Karen, then leave her alone, is a good one. I think you've gotten your point through to her. She isn't going to change her mind and neither are you. So instead of incessantly complaining to her about one subject, just let it slide, discuss it with others, but don't ruin her experience. Let her post in peace and don't force it into a numbers debate. I agree that three million is way too few. But I've read the article and the way the number is presented is sufficiently ambiguous that I feel able to let it slide and retcon it up. But please, don't ruin the boards for her and don't screw over all the people who genuinely do enjoy conversing with her. Think about it -- wouldn't you leave too if every post you made, anwhere, people kept turning it into an argument about something you don't have much interest in and incessantly going after your position on it? Please, just extend her the same common courtesy that you would prefer.
razzy1319 posted:I'll sign this... though good luck in ever getting her back... from the looks of it some people arent gonna stop, me being one of them... and I dont think the saxtonites criticising did make her leave... she probably left because she knew a flame war was about to happen... probably from the advice of experienced authors or LFL.
Kudzu posted:Mm. Good point. God knows enough people here bash Zahn, KJA, Hambly, and Saxton (I just don't like Saxton's style much, for my part). EDIT - Oh. And Denning and Kathy Tyers get laid into by rabid fans incapable of disassociating "author" with "book" or "author" with "character".
Borleias posted:From their responses, it is quite clear that they never thought that we would be that infuriated (not that they are taking the right actions to make us less angry).
razzy1319 posted:oh look at that, another backhanded snipe. no offence man but I think that was what they interpret as flaming here. not if youre already out in public... probably one more reason why she left early.