London, ON Bad News.....

As most of you already know, 4 people died and 1 person was seriously injured in an accident friday night. John Kaufman, Jordan Haag and Kristy Scott(three teenagers from my school) were hit and killed when a car lost control and hit them. the fourth teenager Starla is in critical condition at Mac hospital in Hamilton. The dirver also died on impact. Kristy is an ex-girlfriend of mine. We had a bad break-up and i was mean to her. I always wanted to appologise but i never did. So I am speding on what I have learned from this. Think over all of the little fights that you have with people because it is not worth it. You never know what is going to happen and it is not worth the time and energy to fight. So please don't fight or hold grudges and it is never that hard to appologise. You never know what can happen in the end. I lost Kristy before i ever did appologise.


I ask of you please to keep your hopes and thoughts with them and their family's and especially Starla because she still has a chance to pull through all this. and tell someone how much you love them and realize how lucky you are to have them around.

for the newspaper article go to http://www.canada.com/welland/

 

Sorry to hear that Kevin...I'll pray right now for them and the familys.

 

So sorry to hear that Kevin

 

Very sorry for your loss...that's tragic. We had a situation at my high school like that...2 girls died in a car accident...my dad ended up as the grief counsellor...big assembly, memorial service...really changes the mood at school for awhile. And you're right...it's a sobering thought to think about how you'd feel if someone died...would you have said all that needed to be said? Never expect someone so young to die

 

thank you all for your support. It really helps.

 

Sometimes terrible things can sweep our lives so quickly we barely have time to catch our breaths before we are overwhelmed. Whatever version of heaven one may believe in, regardless of religion those that we love will always be there, for the love we have for them in our hearts gives them wings to span the pain and triumph over all else.

People live forever so long as there are those who remember them, and then there is never any pain and grief, only the joy of their essence which will remain with the living always, giving strength and guidance when we least expect it. We see them all the time in the eyes of children and friends for once you love someone, friend, family or otherwise, you will see the most beautiful aspects of their personality everywhere.

Stay strong and remember that noone ever has to face the hard times alone.

life is too short for regrets, live each day fully and honour friends past in being happy, for that is the best thing you can bring to the world, happiness.