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A question for the guys...

Discussion in 'United Kingdom' started by LadyVader81, Mar 6, 2002.

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  1. LadyVader81

    LadyVader81 Jedi Knight star 6

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    If your girlfriend wanted to go on holiday to Australia next year to visit some friends, by herself would you put up an arguement? Especially if you might end up going on holiday to visit your friends by yourself.
     
  2. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    Nope...

    Nina goes on Holiday with her folks alot..and she's been to the states with her mates twice..
     
  3. LadyVader81

    LadyVader81 Jedi Knight star 6

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    See that's it I don't see the problem with it either.
     
  4. anakin_pm

    anakin_pm Jedi Padawan star 4

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    Im doing the same, Going to Alaska to see some friends, Shell cannot go becasue of lack of leave time.
     
  5. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    He probably want's to go to..
     
  6. MayhemUK

    MayhemUK Jedi Padawan star 4

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    Couldn't see the problem myself... so what's up then J? Something about your Canadian trip?
     
  7. LadyVader81

    LadyVader81 Jedi Knight star 6

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    He did want to go, but I want to go Sydney coz thats where my friend's are and he would have gone to Melbourne. Double standards as far as I am concerned. It ok for him to have gone on holiday without me but I cant go without him!

    Shall we just say I am not going to Canada.
     
  8. MomentOfTriumph

    MomentOfTriumph Jedi Knight star 5

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  9. LadyVader81

    LadyVader81 Jedi Knight star 6

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    He already dumped me coz of it.
     
  10. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    EDIT: J..I'm confused...what is your status at this moment in time single or not single?

    He sound's a little over-bearing..

    He should take a chill-pill and let you live your life
     
  11. MomentOfTriumph

    MomentOfTriumph Jedi Knight star 5

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    yep.

    dont let him spoil your plans, he'll should want to be with you whatever...dont cave in
     
  12. MayhemUK

    MayhemUK Jedi Padawan star 4

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    *hugs*

    But you're right, unsubtle double standards there...
     
  13. LadyVader81

    LadyVader81 Jedi Knight star 6

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    Single now, he dumped me last night coz of this.
     
  14. MomentOfTriumph

    MomentOfTriumph Jedi Knight star 5

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    pah, he's not worth it.



     
  15. AlphaWolf

    AlphaWolf Manager Emeritus star 5 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    you only just got back together though didn't you?
     
  16. MOTs_Minx

    MOTs_Minx Jedi Knight star 6

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    I suppose its all about trust.

    If he can trust you then there shouldnt be a problem. If you can't trust yourself not to do anything stupid, then there's a problem.

     
  17. LadyVader81

    LadyVader81 Jedi Knight star 6

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    yea got back together on sunday....had to change all my plans for him...now which I cant reverse.
    It's like June he didn't want me to come down and meet you guys. I know this because he wanted to come along because I dont think he trusts me.
    I always went out with his friends and for months he been telling me to go out and do things by myself na when I plan things by myself he gets in a mood.
     
  18. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    Sound's like the possesive type..

    Mind you with Chet about..I wouldn't blame him ;)
     
  19. Tanktopgirl

    Tanktopgirl Jedi Knight star 5

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    Control freaks don't make good boyfriends. Or girlfriends. But they *do* make you miserable.

    Do your mates like him?
     
  20. nemco1

    nemco1 Jedi Youngling star 2

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    I think you should call him and say 'we're finished' and dump him even if he has finished with you, then it might hit his ego ,cause he would have thought that you were calling him to make up . Heheeheee!
     
  21. LadyVader81

    LadyVader81 Jedi Knight star 6

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    I dont have any up here really. So that doesn't help. **thinks** maybe after college I will move home again.
     
  22. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    Yeah get out of Darlo fast!!!

    You won't find a decent bloke up there.. :D
     
  23. LadyVader81

    LadyVader81 Jedi Knight star 6

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    I know that much....so until I finish college I aint gonna have a boyfriend [face_plain]

    Arun have you been to the arts centre here?
     
  24. MOTs_Minx

    MOTs_Minx Jedi Knight star 6

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    I understand how you feel, J. And I know how hard it is to try and make friends when the people are already in wee groups of friends and don't bother their arses to try and make you feel welcome or invite you anywhere.

    Not that it bothers me too much

    I get on with Jon's friends. But I miss my own like mad.

    If Jon wanted to go to Australia to visit a friend without me? Hmmm, don't know how I would feel about that.

    And if I wanted to go abroad to visit my friends, I would take him with me...no question about it.
     
  25. MayhemUK

    MayhemUK Jedi Padawan star 4

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    Have fun and enjoy being single J :D

    And you have us here to cheer you up if need be :)
     
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