A Guy Question

Discussion in 'Archive: Your Jedi Council Community' started by LianaMara, Jan 22, 2002.

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  1. LianaMara Force Ghost

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    Oct 30, 2000
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    I have so much to learn concerning guys.

    Okay, one of my friends Daniel called me on the phone a few days ago to ask if he could borrow a CD of mine.

    After asking for the CD, he said "Um....." and was silent for about a minute.

    I had no clue what he was doing, so I asked him if he had seen Black Hawk Down, then told him I had to go.

    When I gave him the CD that afternoon, he said thanks, then just stood there, doing nothing. I had to leave to do something, so I told him later and left.

    What the heck was up with that? I have no idea what he was doing. Any ideas?
  2. Bib Fortuna Twi'lek Jedi Youngling

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    Jul 9, 1999
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    I'd say he has a crush on you, but can't figure out a way to say it. I know I sometimes have the same problem.
  3. Jorus_Kando Jedi Master

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    Nov 9, 2001
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    Crush alert, methinks.
  4. Jedi-Corleone Jedi Youngling

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    Oct 28, 2001
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    Not necessarily. I can never think of things to say. I'm not a conversationalist, but that doesn't make me boring or unfriendly. I respect a friendship where two people can enjoy each other's company without talking inanely all the time.
  5. Darth_Dagsy Manager Emeritus

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    Nov 18, 2000
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    that, or he really didnt have anything to say...the CD was the only business on his mind, so once that was out of the way, he had nowhere to take the conversation.
  6. PadmeSkywalker Jedi Master

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    Aug 27, 2000
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    Yep, sounds like he likes you. Asking to borrow the CD was just a ruse to get to talk to you.
  7. Sate_Pestage Jedi Master

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    Hold on a minute. That could mean anything. i think that you are all jumping to quick. He might have had something to say but then totally forgot it, or perhaps he had nothing to say at all. People use "umm" all the time to bridge conversations or as a filler or when they are nervous....which leads to the fact that he may be interested. But, thats too little info to decide something like that.

    Im great with guys, afterall I am one and, I date them! :)
  8. Quickstrike34 Jedi Grand Master

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    Sep 27, 2001
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    Souds like a crush to me, but you could try this

    When he returns the CD, Ask him what his favorite track was, and than wat his favorite part of the song was.

    If he can rattle off the song, and knows the track name, he might have just wanted the CD.

    If he once again is at a loss for wrods, than the odds are 90% positive he has a crush on you, because that means the CD was just an excuse to talk to you. :)

  9. Sate_Pestage Jedi Master

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    I agree with Quickstrike34 , that is probably the best way to tell.
  10. LianaMara Force Ghost

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    Oct 30, 2000
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    See, this is the guy who never calls me or talks to me on the internet.

    When he does talk to me though, he never stops (usually).

    I'm still sort of mad at him, though, because he was supposed to see FOTR with me and a group of friends but he never showed up.

    I'll try the CD thing.
  11. Sate_Pestage Jedi Master

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    Hmmm, ok so you say that ussually when you talk to him he never shuts-up. So then this was an isolated incident.

    Hmmm, then perhaps he does have some sort of crush on you.

    Is there any other info you have?
  12. LianaMara Force Ghost

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    Oct 30, 2000
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    Um, let's see.
    I've known him since I was in 7th grade, I knew his sister before that, we sort of became friends when Episode I came out, I had a slight crush on him in 7th grade but I got over that a while ago.

    I was in a musical recently, and he had a drama part in it. I talked a lot with Dan during that, because we were about the only high schoolers in it.

    Now that I think about it, he has been quiet lately. He usually tells me EVERYTHING that's going on, and he hasn't been doing that.

    Anything else?
  13. Obi-Zahn Kenobi Chosen One

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  14. Sate_Pestage Jedi Master

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    Well then perhaps he is developing feelings for you and he's not sure how to react or how to express them. This could be the reason why he's so shy lately.

    See what happens when he returns the CD.
  15. McNerf-Burger Jedi Youngling

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    Nov 13, 2000
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    You jump to conclusions like so many frogs to the lilipads, on the pond of all that is not true. HA!

    I always speak as such in the life of "real." I know not what to say to anyone. I always say things like "um" and stand around not doing anything. That doesnt mean I have a crush on everyone in the dern school.

    So stop your jumpery!
  16. Ardens_Furore Jedi Master

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    May 14, 2001
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    If the guy is shy, he won't know what to do in certain situations. Maybe it was just awkward for him.
  17. Night4554 Jedi Grand Master

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    I'd say he has a crush on you, or he's incredibly bad at talking, which it doesn't seem like.

    Ask him the CD question, then if he stutters, ask him whats wrong, cause he's been quiet lately

    ¤Night
  18. Blue_10 Jedi Master

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    Oct 13, 2001
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    Possibly a crush, maybe he wants to talk but just runs out of ideas quickly. More likely a crush though.
  19. McNerf-Burger Jedi Youngling

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    More jumpery to conclusions. I know of what I speak.
  20. Crimson Force Ghost

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    Maybe you had something hanging from your nose. He might have just been polite and not said anything about it. You know how it is...

    Or maybe he's a bumbling idiot and he wants you badly.
  21. Obi-Zahn Kenobi Chosen One

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    Maybe it's infatuation? Crush sounds too crude and childish, but he might be developing mature feelings for you. I don't know, if he is then myself and him are in similar situations.
  22. Sate_Pestage Jedi Master

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    May 31, 2001
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    Yup, like I said before to jump....the outcome could be disastrous!

    Just play it cool, and let him come to you. Dont look to eager but try tp pry a conversation from him and see what he does.
  23. LianaMara Force Ghost

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    Oct 30, 2000
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    McNerf-Burger: ;) -'jumpery'

    I don't think its a "shyness" thing. Once, for a dare, Dan did something HILARIOUS.
    He was doing a song at All-County about marriage, and he was supposed to kiss the girl at the end. My friend Sara dared him to french-kiss the girl, and he did! You should have seen the look on her face! [face_laugh]
    She never spoke to him again.
  24. Admiral_Thrawn60 Jedi Youngling

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    Jul 8, 2000
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    Does he have an unusual tendancy to check out your butt? ;)
  25. jakiwis Jedi Knight

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    Aug 6, 2001
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    hi im new to this forum...well im new to all forums here this is my first post anyway it seems he might have a crush on you but it is a really big mistake for girls to assume anything and it will be better not to think too much about it because it might just be nothing hope this helps :)
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