A question for the guys...

Discussion in 'United Kingdom' started by LadyVader81, Mar 6, 2002.

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  1. LadyVader81 Jedi Grand Master

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    If your girlfriend wanted to go on holiday to Australia next year to visit some friends, by herself would you put up an arguement? Especially if you might end up going on holiday to visit your friends by yourself.
  2. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    Nope...

    Nina goes on Holiday with her folks alot..and she's been to the states with her mates twice..
  3. LadyVader81 Jedi Grand Master

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    See that's it I don't see the problem with it either.
  4. anakin_pm Jedi Master

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    Im doing the same, Going to Alaska to see some friends, Shell cannot go becasue of lack of leave time.
  5. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    He probably want's to go to..
  6. MayhemUK Jedi Master

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    Couldn't see the problem myself... so what's up then J? Something about your Canadian trip?
  7. LadyVader81 Jedi Grand Master

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    He did want to go, but I want to go Sydney coz thats where my friend's are and he would have gone to Melbourne. Double standards as far as I am concerned. It ok for him to have gone on holiday without me but I cant go without him!

    Shall we just say I am not going to Canada.
  8. MomentOfTriumph Jedi Grand Master

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  9. LadyVader81 Jedi Grand Master

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    He already dumped me coz of it.
  10. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    EDIT: J..I'm confused...what is your status at this moment in time single or not single?

    He sound's a little over-bearing..

    He should take a chill-pill and let you live your life
  11. MomentOfTriumph Jedi Grand Master

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    yep.

    dont let him spoil your plans, he'll should want to be with you whatever...dont cave in
  12. MayhemUK Jedi Master

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    *hugs*

    But you're right, unsubtle double standards there...
  13. LadyVader81 Jedi Grand Master

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    Single now, he dumped me last night coz of this.
  14. MomentOfTriumph Jedi Grand Master

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  15. AlphaWolf Manager Emeritus

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    you only just got back together though didn't you?
  16. MOTs_Minx Jedi Grand Master

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    I suppose its all about trust.

    If he can trust you then there shouldnt be a problem. If you can't trust yourself not to do anything stupid, then there's a problem.

  17. LadyVader81 Jedi Grand Master

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    yea got back together on sunday....had to change all my plans for him...now which I cant reverse.
    It's like June he didn't want me to come down and meet you guys. I know this because he wanted to come along because I dont think he trusts me.
    I always went out with his friends and for months he been telling me to go out and do things by myself na when I plan things by myself he gets in a mood.
  18. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    Sound's like the possesive type..

    Mind you with Chet about..I wouldn't blame him ;)
  19. Tanktopgirl Jedi Grand Master

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    Control freaks don't make good boyfriends. Or girlfriends. But they *do* make you miserable.

    Do your mates like him?
  20. nemco1 Jedi Knight

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    I think you should call him and say 'we're finished' and dump him even if he has finished with you, then it might hit his ego ,cause he would have thought that you were calling him to make up . Heheeheee!
  21. LadyVader81 Jedi Grand Master

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    I dont have any up here really. So that doesn't help. **thinks** maybe after college I will move home again.
  22. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    Yeah get out of Darlo fast!!!

    You won't find a decent bloke up there.. :D
  23. LadyVader81 Jedi Grand Master

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    I know that much....so until I finish college I aint gonna have a boyfriend [face_plain]

    Arun have you been to the arts centre here?
  24. MOTs_Minx Jedi Grand Master

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    I understand how you feel, J. And I know how hard it is to try and make friends when the people are already in wee groups of friends and don't bother their arses to try and make you feel welcome or invite you anywhere.

    Not that it bothers me too much

    I get on with Jon's friends. But I miss my own like mad.

    If Jon wanted to go to Australia to visit a friend without me? Hmmm, don't know how I would feel about that.

    And if I wanted to go abroad to visit my friends, I would take him with me...no question about it.
  25. MayhemUK Jedi Master

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    Have fun and enjoy being single J :D

    And you have us here to cheer you up if need be :)
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