I don't know guys... think we should vote her out? Choosing to help out a widower with a lot of children instead of playing with us??? Where are you priorities, Debbie???? Just in case somebody didn't catch it, that was nothing but sarcasm!! If one of the main goals of our group is to do good deeds, how could we ever be upset at you for choosing to do one (a major one) over coming out to play? I'm in awe of the project and wish you all good luck. What an admirable thing to do!