"Guys are dumb" is an irrational generalization. What do you mean by "dumb"? Shinagami considering that you're still 14 you must have been younger when you were in Thailand. what kind of muscles do you expect? I'm 14 and I have like no meat...it would help maybe if i took martial arts but somehow (unfortunately) I quit wushu after only a couple months. And don't worry about the embarassing part we're not making fun of you.