150 posts for this thread!!! All I can say, man, is just to follow the advice of the first song and not even think about the second. You die a thousand deaths worrying about something that may never happen. Besides, the greatest thing is to love someone and even if this girl who has caught your eye isn't "the one" God is going to teach you something about love. The first lesson is "love is patient" (can't claim originality on that one ) Hopefully this is semi helpful, but I have to get to class.