Have you ever been in love? (Part IV)

Have you ever been in love?

Why, yes I have.

I thought I was more than once but no, only once.

Now, I'm a bitter hateful son of a *****, that can only be turned around by sweetness and a nice pair of feet.

Or maybe, a homemade chocolate chip cookie.


Amos edit: Profanity.

 

I'm in love.

 

I am in love right now. This is my first love also. Other girls (those few) that I had been with before were just that I liked them, but in reality I only liked them as a friend, and they the same. Also, if you want to find a lover, then you don't try to make a friend a lover, or you don't become friends with the person you like, you must start off as a flirtee, and then when the time is right, you ask her/him out. That is the way to do it. Never try to be girl/boyfriend with your friends. It just doesn't work (shouldn't work in theory) because in the end you will just always be friends. For me, my lover Jasmine, one day she was flirting with me and I decided that I was physically attracted to her. So on Novemeber 18, 2004 we became a couple and fell in love later. We are truly in love. Today was 5 months of greatness. This is not an infatuation or an obsession, because when you (or anyone) is in true love, they know it.

 

That's really good. I wish you guys joy.

 

Twice. Second time still going on . . .

Actually, here's a little thing I posted elsewhere that's relevent:
Why do people question whether or not they've been in love? Sometimes it just seems like a childish attack on former relationships. I think sometimes people build up some "love" ideal in their heads which can only exist when they're drugged up enough on infatuation to play out detailed fantasy. A person can easily love an abusive spouse. Love isn't that hard. Today, I am interested in what's beyond that.

 

Zas..you described it perfectly.

 

Have you ever been in love?

Almost...

 

I've been in love 3 times. Twice engaged. None of them worked out.

I am currently not in love and I'm actually glad about that. Love hurts.

 

no.....sorta no. with a bunch of g/fs i only almost got into love once. like we said it and did all that kinda stuff. but in retrospect, we were really both just in lust.


so in the future probably when i least expect it.

 

This is the first time I've been in love, and she's 2000 miles away most of the times. It's an entirely different experience from before, when we were basically glued together every moment. It's been difficult, so every time we see each other after a while I get an incredible happiness.

 

I was in love once.

I dated a girl for 3 year. In the ends, things didn't work out, but we've remained friends. We go to different colleges, so we don't see each other often, but she's still pretty awesome.