I fail to see how that is relevant. As far as I know, I'm not writing to you via the telegraph either. Society has new technology, time to get with the times J-Rod. I'm even sure that if we really wanted to, we could even go as far as your 50/50 (and very, very arbitrary) rule. Just asking, in vitro children to you aren't really human beings, is that it? Re-marrying is off the table as well, right? No children from previous relations, better no dad than a step-dad! Or am I missing something here?