I don't pity them, not in the sense that I mighty pity groups that have been traditionally marginalized. This is why: I don't see diversity as a zero sum game. There's like what, at least 50+ different versions of a straight Peter Parker? We aren't losing straight Peter Parker. Rather, we are all gaining a gay Peter Parker. Same with Nick Fury, who remains white in the main Marvel timeline; we didn't lose him, we just gained another version of him. Straight white dudes will always have "the original deal" anyway. It's just that in addition to that, we will also have a different version, too. They aren't "losing" nearly as much as everyone else is "gaining."