JCC Is anone here a born again virgin?

Discussion in 'Community' started by Diggy, Mar 12, 2013.

  1. Diggy Force Ghost

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    I've been considering doing this for a few minutes now. I do have a concern about potential pitfalls to it, and would appreciate any advice from those that have been through it. If you aren't comfortable speaking about it on a public forum please PM your story and I'll make it public for you.
  2. anakinfansince1983 Chosen One

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  3. AmazingB Manager Emeritus

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    You already know all my secrets.

    Amazing.
  4. Diggy Force Ghost

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    Sweet Child 'o mine. Not let it be ended!
  5. Emperor_Billy_Bob Chosen One

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  6. Mortimer Snerd Force Ghost

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  7. EmpireForever Chosen One

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    I'm just the regular kind.
  8. Emperor_Billy_Bob Chosen One

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    diggy, do you like the Christian sidehug?
  9. harpua Chosen One

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    There's exactly zero chance in hell that I'd do this.
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  10. Eeth-my-Koth Chosen One

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    Do you just want to perv on us sapient style via pm?
  11. TahiriVeilaSolo69 Force Ghost

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    Why would any woman go through that again?
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  12. Mortimer Snerd Force Ghost

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    Good question. Another good question would be "why on Earth would any woman have more than one kid?"

    I've seen birth. It's like watching your favorite toy get demolished.
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  13. TahiriVeilaSolo69 Force Ghost

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    I have seen a few of my friends births. I am so glad I am getting married to a man that doesn't want children because I walked around cross-legged after seeing those disasters. More power to women who do it, they are braver then I am.
  14. Darth Guy Chosen One

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    I was born again. And again. And again. I am eternal.
  15. Emperor_Billy_Bob Chosen One

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    Do you affirm your existence not just once, but for all time, repeating endlessly throughout the void of time and space?
  16. Aytee-Aytee Force Ghost

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    Born again, you say?

    Sign me up. Just be sure to use actual blood in the ritual. No ketchup.
  17. GrandAdmiralJello Moderator Communitatis Litterarumque

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    Guess so -- I've never been born again.
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  18. Saintheart Chosen One

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    I read "virgin" as "vegan". In either case, the answer is no. I love animals, especially with barbecue sauce and a nice vino.
  19. anakinfansince1983 Chosen One

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    Some of us got sliced open to do it. And think we actually had the better option.
  20. wannasee Force Ghost

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    Both of my sisters had to have C-sections. It's weird to think they both might have died in childbirth if they'd lived 100 years ago or whatever...

    Edit: Oh GOD, are you talking about when they cut the vagina!!!>!>!>!>>>!>!?
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  21. anakinfansince1983 Chosen One

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    Dude. No.

    The placental abrupted with my first baby, my second one was breech with his head under my ribs. So...yeah, I had the same thought that you had about your sisters. The greatest cause of death among women then was childbirth.
  22. Diggy Force Ghost

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    Take it to the birthing thread, I'm looking for born again virgins.
  23. Sith-Lord-Gunray Ex-Mod

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    What is a born again virgin
  24. Obi-Zahn Kenobi Chosen One

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    I am baptized and I have not had sex. I guess that qualifies me.

    Someone who is repentant of previous sexual activity and has made a special commitment never to have sex again until they get married.

    It's a result of American Christians' unhealthy obsession with virginity. Basically, many American Christians have this idea that someone's worth as a potential partner for marriage is significantly decreased if they've "given up their purity". That's why manual sex and oral sex are so common among many religious young people, because they have this view that even though those things are sinful, if they can just be technically a virgin, it makes it better somehow. In addition to objectifying people, this sort of attitude also has the result of making people who have "fallen" feel like it doesn't matter and they proceed to continue to have pre-marital sex with whomever they happen to date. "Born again virginity" was invented to make people who'd lost their oh-so-precious virginity feel better, and encourage them not to fall into that pattern of thought and behavior.

    On the whole, I think it's pretty ridiculous and showcases some of the reasons that chastity has been such a dramatic failure among American Christian communities. People aren't objects that are only valuable if they've never been touched. This attitude towards human sexuality is pretty damn unhealthy in my opinion, and not at all effective at preventing unchaste behavior.

    That's rarely medically indicated. It actually heals better if you let it tear. You only cut if the baby is going to asphyxiate.
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  25. Sith-Lord-Gunray Ex-Mod

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