Turning 31 was harder or me, because there were a few things I wanted to do/have done by the time I was 30, and turning 31 meant I'd officially failed. But everyone keeps telling me self-imposed deadlines like that are silly, so I guess I'm probably not a failure. (SO LONG AS THEY HAPPEN BEFORE I TURN 32!) They waited until then?! We got married July 21 and my grandmother asked that Labor Day weekend.