Obviously Han is deeply misogynistic in ANH, "If we can just avoid anymore female advice we oughta be able to get outta here!" To which Luke replies, "Then let's get moving!" Followed by two dirty looks at Leia when she asserts herself. He also expects her to be afraid and helpless and grateful for her rescue hence his "huh?!" When instead she acts witty and snide. Is Luke who grew up under Uncle Owen and Aunt Beru, a very traditional gender role enforced family unit sexist and if so does he develop enough by ROTJ not to be? Does it take Rey kicking his ass in the Last Jedi to hammer home women are equal to men?