wow, good point, it's not real life, if it it was it is in another galaxy anyway, love could be the absolute opposite as it is here and now. and the editting is half the problem. but what gets edited, and what deosn't get edited is or isn't part of the story. the editing is responsible for the story line. if the crew thinks something does not belong in the movie, it's not part of the original story anymore. we can't use "the editing is bad" to make it more realistic.