Okay, let's recap. Yes, let's. You didn't know who I was until you clicked on my profile. While there, you most likely saw my WUL, where Tracy is one of maybe 30 people that I'm watching, and so are pretty much everyone else posting in the thread. Bzzz, wrong. I only looked for your name. I found your name and closed that window. End of story. You went back to the thread, neglected to notice that pretty much everyone in the thread had the same signature and seemed to know the same in-jokes, saw Tracy say something about Jewish babies, didn't ask her about it, didn't post in the thread asking her about it Yes, actually, I did fail to notice it. I honestly didn't know what was going on in that thread. Even if I had tried to post in the thread asking her about it, the thread would've been locked before I hit post. didn't PM a mod to lock or edit the thread (even though you claim you were about to) Yep, that's right. I was in the process of PMing MaidenLumpe. I have no proof other than the person I was IMing with at the time. I clicked her name, clicked send PM. Then I realized I should have a link to the thread put into the message. By the time I got back to the thread, then went to PM again (this was now in a separate window), I hit reload one more time to see if it was still open and it went locked. So I had maybe 3 mins time between when I saw the post and when I went to PM a mod. If you don't believe me, that's fine. You're entitled to that. and yet you still think it wasn't right to even warn her before giving her a 3-day ban. Looks like you have some very well-researched opinions there. IMO, if the offense is harsh enough, I don't think a warning is necessary. That's my opinion.