part 1: http://boards.theforce.net/threads/itt-we-tell-luke-to-dtmfa.50003777/ As you may recall, I had dumped my bf due to general unhappiness and the fact that I had feelings for another guy. Well, 2 weeks later we got back together and me and the other guy cooled off (he moved to DC, but some feelings lingered) and yadda yadda yadda. All was good. Until now. Using skills taught to him by a friend, he either hacked my laptop, my facebook account, or found out how to find everything written on our network (#halibut). He read every one of my facebook conversations (even ones I had deleted, somehow), and found out the extent of my unfaithfulness. Seeing crazy **** like this didn't help: So now he is confronting everyone I've even mildly flirted with over the past four years which has made me deactivate my book of faces for a while. We haven't talked since 8:00 last night, and I slept on the cough. So, now it is a waiting game. AND HERE IS THE REAL KICKER: He cheats on me just the same, and has done so since the beginning. Which I'm fine with, honestly, I'd prefer an open relationship, but he implies I'm just short of a sociopath for doing the same, it sort of rubs me the wrong way, ya know? "Well, I'm not as bad as you" is his general excuse. So now lol @ me and how easily this could have been avoided.