JCC itt we tell luke to dtmfa

Discussion in 'Community' started by AaylaSecurOWNED, Sep 13, 2012.

  1. AaylaSecurOWNED Force Ghost

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    Apparently Whitey's relationship has gone right down the tubes and he wants to dump his boyfriend, but he won't do it unless the JC strokes his ego and unless we text him enough vacuous top 40 lyrics. So in this thread everyone tell Whitey to dump his boyfriend of like 3 years with whom he his shacking up and go after the new hot young thing he wants to pursue.

    Ready go.
  2. harpua Chosen One

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    Young hot rebounds almost never work out, though.
  3. AaylaSecurOWNED Force Ghost

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    Who said he wanted it to work out?
  4. harpua Chosen One

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    I see.

    Well, dump the boyfriend, for sure. If you're not into it anymore, you're not into it anymore. Don't be one of "those" couples... fight **** fight**** fight ****.

    ... and if you want the hot piece of rebound ass, then go for it.

    Bottom line... listen to Dani.

    Hi weiner.
    Last edited by harpuah, Sep 13, 2012
  5. Whitey Force Ghost

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    I'M TRYING.

    Apparently the oh-so-subtle "I'm not good for you, I just drag you down" approach does not work.
    Last edited by Whitey, Sep 13, 2012
  6. harpua Chosen One

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    That never works... that's what people say when they're trying to get a specific response from somebody. It's more of a cue/prime than a conversation. Speak English when you have this conversation... not in loaded boyfriend cliches. :p
  7. Healer_Leona Manager Emeritus

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    Luke, if you're not into it anymore you not doing yourself or him any service by not cutting ties. Life is too short to not be with someone you no longer care about.
  8. harpua Chosen One

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    Yeah, what is your reason for not breaking up?
  9. Darth Morella Force Ghost

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    How about this: dump him and go for the young rebound before he dumps you and goes for the young rebound.
  10. Aytee-Aytee Force Ghost

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    You could try....alternate approaches. [face_devil]
  11. Juliet316 Chosen One

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    Why not just say outright "Look, I don't love you anymore, I've fallen for somebody else." Blunt, quick and too the point.
  12. Sith-Lord-Gunray Ex-Mod

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    WHITEY FOR GODS SAKE PLEASE JUST DUMP THIS GUY. I TOLD YOU THAT 2 YEARS AGO. DO IT NOW.
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  13. Whitey Force Ghost

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    Effective and super respectful of the 4 years we've spent together.
  14. Darth Guy Chosen One

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    I know very little about this relationship and I don't think it's any of my business, but I agree with Dani because I'm kind of scared of her.
  15. harpua Chosen One

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    The best way to respect the four years you've spent together would be to keep those memories, have no regrets, and move on. Dragging it out when the relationship is over just tarnishes the good you got out of the relationship.
  16. cipe Jedi Knight

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  17. Juliet316 Chosen One

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    It'll hurt, true and I'm not even saying it would be the best possible way ever to handle this. But I think your partner would in the long run, rather have the blunt honesty, than dragging this out with the 'subtle' hints.
    Last edited by Juliet316, Sep 13, 2012
  18. harpua Chosen One

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    Yeah, but tact and class are admirable traits. You can break up with somebody without being inconsiderate.
    Last edited by JoinTheSchwarz, Sep 14, 2012
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  19. Jabbadabbado Manager Emeritus

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    Not everyone has that skill. As I told someone once not so long ago, "Don't think for a moment you're the first woman whose last words to me were 'you can go straight to hell!'"
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  20. Ramza JC Head Admin and RPF Manager

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    "It's not you, it's me - I'm breaking up with you."
  21. Whitey Force Ghost

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    Maybe I can do it through song, like on Glee. That happens, right?
    Last edited by Whitey, Sep 13, 2012
  22. Darth Guy Chosen One

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    Breakups tend to be less painful than that.
  23. PrincessKenobi New Films Manager of DOOM

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    Luke.....honey, no it doesn't. :(


    Have you tried telling him you need some space? That you need to explore the world out there as an individual and all that other cliche stuff they say to say to avoid hurting someone's feelings. :p I know is not the best way either because someone always ends up hurt in a break up.
    Last edited by PrincessKenobi, Sep 13, 2012
  24. JoinTheSchwarz Comms Admin & Community Manager

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  25. yankee8255 Force Ghost

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    I think you wanted "It's not you, it's me."

    Or you could do things in reverse order, hook up with the hot new POA, and have the current BF "accidentally" walk in on you.

    EDIT: Or, of course, you could propose a menage-a-trois with the new guy to the current BF.
    Last edited by yankee8255, Sep 14, 2012
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