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Discussion in 'Community' started by AaylaSecurOWNED, Sep 13, 2012.

  1. AaylaSecurOWNED

    AaylaSecurOWNED Jedi Master star 6

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    Apparently Whitey's relationship has gone right down the tubes and he wants to dump his boyfriend, but he won't do it unless the JC strokes his ego and unless we text him enough vacuous top 40 lyrics. So in this thread everyone tell Whitey to dump his boyfriend of like 3 years with whom he his shacking up and go after the new hot young thing he wants to pursue.

    Ready go.
     
  2. harpua

    harpua Chosen One star 9

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    Young hot rebounds almost never work out, though.
     
  3. AaylaSecurOWNED

    AaylaSecurOWNED Jedi Master star 6

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    Who said he wanted it to work out?
     
  4. harpua

    harpua Chosen One star 9

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    I see.

    Well, dump the boyfriend, for sure. If you're not into it anymore, you're not into it anymore. Don't be one of "those" couples... fight **** fight**** fight ****.

    ... and if you want the hot piece of rebound ass, then go for it.

    Bottom line... listen to Dani.

    Hi weiner.
     
  5. Whitey

    Whitey Jedi Master star 6

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    I'M TRYING.

    Apparently the oh-so-subtle "I'm not good for you, I just drag you down" approach does not work.
     
  6. harpua

    harpua Chosen One star 9

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    That never works... that's what people say when they're trying to get a specific response from somebody. It's more of a cue/prime than a conversation. Speak English when you have this conversation... not in loaded boyfriend cliches. :p
     
  7. Healer_Leona

    Healer_Leona Squirrely Community Mod star 9 Staff Member Manager

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    Luke, if you're not into it anymore you not doing yourself or him any service by not cutting ties. Life is too short to not be with someone you no longer care about.
     
  8. harpua

    harpua Chosen One star 9

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    Yeah, what is your reason for not breaking up?
     
  9. Darth Morella

    Darth Morella Jedi Grand Master star 6

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    How about this: dump him and go for the young rebound before he dumps you and goes for the young rebound.
     
  10. Aytee-Aytee

    Aytee-Aytee Jedi Master star 5

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    You could try....alternate approaches. [face_devil]
     
  11. Juliet316

    Juliet316 JCC Game Winner star 10 VIP - Game Winner

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    Why not just say outright "Look, I don't love you anymore, I've fallen for somebody else." Blunt, quick and too the point.
     
  12. Only-One Cannoli

    Only-One Cannoli Ex-Mod star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    WHITEY FOR GODS SAKE PLEASE JUST DUMP THIS GUY. I TOLD YOU THAT 2 YEARS AGO. DO IT NOW.
     
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  13. Whitey

    Whitey Jedi Master star 6

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    Effective and super respectful of the 4 years we've spent together.
     
  14. Darth Guy

    Darth Guy Chosen One star 10

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    I know very little about this relationship and I don't think it's any of my business, but I agree with Dani because I'm kind of scared of her.
     
  15. harpua

    harpua Chosen One star 9

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    The best way to respect the four years you've spent together would be to keep those memories, have no regrets, and move on. Dragging it out when the relationship is over just tarnishes the good you got out of the relationship.
     
  16. cipe

    cipe Jedi Youngling star 1

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    AaylaSecurOW. lol
     
  17. Juliet316

    Juliet316 JCC Game Winner star 10 VIP - Game Winner

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    It'll hurt, true and I'm not even saying it would be the best possible way ever to handle this. But I think your partner would in the long run, rather have the blunt honesty, than dragging this out with the 'subtle' hints.
     
  18. harpua

    harpua Chosen One star 9

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    Yeah, but tact and class are admirable traits. You can break up with somebody without being inconsiderate.
     
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  19. Jabbadabbado

    Jabbadabbado Manager Emeritus star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Not everyone has that skill. As I told someone once not so long ago, "Don't think for a moment you're the first woman whose last words to me were 'you can go straight to hell!'"
     
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  20. Ramza

    Ramza Administrator Emeritus star 8 VIP - Former Mod/RSA VIP

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    "It's not you, it's me - I'm breaking up with you."
     
  21. Whitey

    Whitey Jedi Master star 6

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    Maybe I can do it through song, like on Glee. That happens, right?
     
  22. Darth Guy

    Darth Guy Chosen One star 10

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    Breakups tend to be less painful than that.
     
  23. PrincessKenobi

    PrincessKenobi New Films Manager star 7 Staff Member Manager

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    Luke.....honey, no it doesn't. :(


    Have you tried telling him you need some space? That you need to explore the world out there as an individual and all that other cliche stuff they say to say to avoid hurting someone's feelings. :p I know is not the best way either because someone always ends up hurt in a break up.
     
  24. JoinTheSchwarz

    JoinTheSchwarz JC Head Admin & Community Manager star 9 Staff Member Administrator

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    Tell him that you're a slut.
     
  25. yankee8255

    yankee8255 Jedi Grand Master star 6

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    I think you wanted "It's not you, it's me."

    Or you could do things in reverse order, hook up with the hot new POA, and have the current BF "accidentally" walk in on you.

    EDIT: Or, of course, you could propose a menage-a-trois with the new guy to the current BF.
     
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