This. You probably didn't intend to be sexist, but you were. Conne is just as much to blame as JW. He probably didn't tie her up and drag her to Afghanistan. She's an adult.. Yes, she is naive and sheltered, but some personal responsibility needs to be assigned. When she became pregnant and decided to have the child, she assumed the role of protector to her child. Making the decision to follow JW into hostile territory was her choice, and it was a foolish one. Like I said, though, I'm sure she thinks about this all the time.