JCC My Fiance dumped me

Discussion in 'Community' started by PRENNTACULAR, Sep 30, 2012.

  1. Lowbacca_1977 Jedi Master

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    Prenn, by NO means go. I refer to my story that involved break up followed by two weeks in Europe. It was also a somewhat good terms thing... but that time with her like that was absolutely devastating to me in some regards. Specifically because no matter what could be said, there were things i wanted out of it that she, at that time, didn't. Don't do it. I know it sounds good ahead of time, but I think it comes with a lot of frustration and regret.
  2. Darthkat76 Jedi Master

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    Last year on my birthday, my (ex) BF broke up with me by telling me that he was in love with somebody else. That's probably the worst one for me.
  3. PRENNTACULAR VIP

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    Holy **** that's terrible.
  4. Armenian_Jedi Jedi Master

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    this is sucky Prenn. on the bright side, we can hang out when you're in phoenix. i can't promise we'll have sex tho

    EDIT: Also, I was engaged earlier this year. And then I wasn't. Good times.
    Last edited by Armenian_Jedi, Oct 1, 2012
  5. yankee8255 Jedi Grand Master

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    :eek:
  6. Darth Morella Jedi Grand Master

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    I would like to cheer you guys up by sharing my breakup stories but that'd ruin my mood and I gotta work. So a "there, there" will have to do :p
  7. GrandAdmiralJello Moderator Communitatis Litterarumque

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    Believe me, I was wrinkling my nose as I did so.

    Glad to be of service. :p
  8. GargantuanThrillMachine Jedi Youngling

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    lol
  9. PRENNTACULAR VIP

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    Today has been a lot more difficult than yesterday. I think it is starting to actually hit me what that it's real. I accidentally sent her an email last night. That was a bad idea.
  10. Yo_Raja Jedi Padawan

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    O RLY
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  11. Yo_Raja Jedi Padawan

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    -

    (double post)
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  12. harpua Chosen One

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    I've done that before... you become so used to sharing every detail with a person, and then suddenly it's not appropriate to do so, and you do it without thinking.

    Don't beat yourself up over it, Austin.
    Last edited by harpuah, Oct 2, 2012
  13. Jedi Ben Chosen One

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    [face_hypnotized][face_dunno]:(

    Sheesh, I'm no position to help any of you but these tales truly do suck.
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  14. NYCitygurl Manager Emeritus

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  15. PRENNTACULAR VIP

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    Well she returned my email! Which I didn't think was going to happen. Turns out she has had a pretty crappy coulpe of days too, like me. So that's comforting, I guess. :p
  16. Darth Guy Chosen One

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    Misery wants other people to be miserable!

    Or something.
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  17. Jedi_Reject_Jesse Jedi Master

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    I can't relate to anything in this thread! :)
  18. Obi-Zahn Kenobi Jedi Grand Master

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    Stop it.
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  19. harpua Chosen One

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    Do you see how comforted you are that she returned your email, and that she said she's had a couple of crappy days? Tell me again, how you are going to be able to spend a booty call weekend with her, without going through a mind****. :p

    You can call the airline and cancel that trip. You can also replace the trip with another one. Go someplace you've always wanted to go for a weekend by yourself. Get some good me-time in. I think that would be far more beneficial to you than a booty call with your ex.
  20. PRENNTACULAR VIP

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    MAYBE I'LL COME TO DENVER

    Except October is winter over there, isn't it? :p
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  21. JoinTheSchwarz Comms Admin & Community Manager

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    Come to Spain. Cathy and me will get you drunk.
  22. PRENNTACULAR VIP

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    I'm only coming if you agree to it being a booty call weekend, Davviiid.

    How do you say booty call in spanish?
    Last edited by MASTERPRENN, Oct 3, 2012
  23. harpua Chosen One

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    Nah... October is Autumn, and Autumn in Colorado is awesome.
  24. Ramza JC Head Admin and RPF Manager

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    This thread is quite the rollercoaster. Makes me glad my breakups have all been fairly amicable and after the short-term. Sorry you have to deal with all of this, Prenn.


    Indeed, we're at a very nice 50s-70s fluctuation. Makes for good wardrobe stability.
    Last edited by Ramza, Oct 3, 2012
  25. yankee8255 Jedi Grand Master

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    This. Totally this.