JCC My Fiance dumped me

Discussion in 'Community' started by PRENNTACULAR, Sep 30, 2012.

  1. Jabba-wocky Chosen One

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    . . .

    What was that supposed to be?

    I see Even has made a habit of liking musicians that mangle good songs with their "covers." For those interested in how this is supposed to be done:

  2. A Chorus of Disapproval New Films Riot Deterrent

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    I own the original on 78. But, this is supposed to be a Johnny Cash Appreciation thread. Thanks for the cultured off-topic spamming, though. It was very cultured. :p
  3. PRENNTACULAR VIP

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    Guys. Today is ****. It is raining and I am sad. I have been doing good these last couple days. But then today happened. And everything is crap.

    UGH.
  4. ophelia Cards Against Humanity Host. Ex-Mod

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  5. Healer_Leona Manager Emeritus

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    Just go lay in bed and listen to country music and wallow in it until it passes, Austin.

    Seriously though, it'll happen from time to time. You just have to get through it, but we're here for you. [:D]
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  6. Darth_wanderguard Force Ghost

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    I heard that drugs help.

    In all seriousness, it'll pass. The most important thing is that you acknowledge it and deal with it. Just don't crawl in a hole and suffocate.
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  7. Obi-Zahn Kenobi Chosen One

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  8. Darth_Invidious Chosen One

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    That's part of it, brother. Expect a lot of ****days in the coming weeks. Maybe longer. Just hang in there. Distract yourself with whatever it is that'll certainly won't get you down. Get out of the house. Hang with friends. Get your mind off crap that won't do you any good. And yeah, as hard as it may be, try not to think about her. That means no emails, texts or calls, drunken or otherwise.
  9. Alpha-Red Force Ghost

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    So uh, does this count as being permanently dumped? Or is there a possibility that you two might end up back together once she's done with traveling or whatever?
  10. Yo_Raja Jedi Master

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    =D= Alpha-Red, this was so called for.



    [face_plain]
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  11. Sith-Lord-Gunray Ex-Mod

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    Prenn expect a good 4-6 months of "OH GOD WHY", followed by 3ish months of "I think I'm ok....OH GOD WHY...wait no I think I'm ok...", followed by 6months - 2 years of "I'm happy! Everything is good tod- OH GOD WHY! Oh wait, everything is great now. Really. OH GOD WHY"


    But the good news is that that's normal and varies person to person. It's supposed to happen. Try to avoid alcohol though for a while.
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  12. PRENNTACULAR VIP

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  13. VadersLaMent Chosen One

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    Go get a revenge girlfriend.
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  14. tom Chosen One

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    "half the length of the relationship" gets thrown around a lot. everyone's different though.
  15. Billy_Dee_Binks Force Ghost

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    Yeah, maybe her mom is the more mature version of your ex-finance.

    ...


    Okay, there was so much wrong with that suggestion, but it seemed to work out smoothly in the movie. :p
  16. Quixotic-Sith Manager Emeritus

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    I think the technical term is "hooker", Montie.
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  17. Darth_Invidious Chosen One

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    Yeah...sometimes it can take much longer. Much, much longer... :(
  18. PRENNTACULAR VIP

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    Well, I went on a date last night. Not like a revenge date or an "I want a new girlfriend" date. Just out with a girl on a Friday night. It was fun. Today was good too. I haven't had any moments in the last couple days where I've been super sad or anything. Which kind of makes me happy, and kind of makes me worried that I'm going to have an OH GOD WHY night soon. Or something.
  19. Sith-Lord-Gunray Ex-Mod

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    Oh. Try not to go on dates. The OH GOD WHYs are going to hit harder when they do come. But I suppose also some people recover differently than others so maybe that will help you.
  20. Rox Administrator Emeritus

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    Psh go on dates and one night stand yourself into oblivion.
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  21. Alpha-Red Force Ghost

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    Eh? Seriously though, what's stopping him from getting back together with his (ex?) fiance in the future? It's probably painful as hell to think about at the moment, but the way I see it if she hasn't decided to marry someone else, it's not over.
    Last edited by Alpha-Red, Oct 13, 2012
  22. J_Girl Force Ghost

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    I say yes, go on dates. Meeting new people is not a bad idea. Seeing that there are other actual possibilities in the world is a good thing. Besides the more new experiences you have with new people in the same or new places will help put the distance between you and your ex that you need to feel better. I would say no to jumping into any kind of of ongoing relationship right now. Lots of transitional dating, but be upfront that you are only interested in dating fun and 'new friends' right now.
  23. PRENNTACULAR VIP

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    Well I tried to go on a date with this guy named Arlon. But he rejected me.
  24. Sk_Skywalker14 Jedi Youngling

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    You got friend-zoned!? Ouch.. I totally get it... happens all the time
  25. J_Girl Force Ghost

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    Nice to see you still have your sense of humor.