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JCC My Fiance dumped me

Discussion in 'Community' started by PRENNTACULAR, Sep 30, 2012.

  1. Jabba-wocky

    Jabba-wocky Chosen One star 9

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    . . .

    What was that supposed to be?

    I see Even has made a habit of liking musicians that mangle good songs with their "covers." For those interested in how this is supposed to be done:

     
  2. A Chorus of Disapproval

    A Chorus of Disapproval New Films Malleus Maleficarum star 8 Staff Member Manager

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    I own the original on 78. But, this is supposed to be a Johnny Cash Appreciation thread. Thanks for the cultured off-topic spamming, though. It was very cultured. :p
     
  3. PRENNTACULAR

    PRENNTACULAR VIP star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Guys. Today is ****. It is raining and I am sad. I have been doing good these last couple days. But then today happened. And everything is crap.

    UGH.
     
  4. poor yorick

    poor yorick Ex-Mod star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA VIP - Game Host

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  5. Healer_Leona

    Healer_Leona Squirrely Community Mod star 9 Staff Member Manager

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    Just go lay in bed and listen to country music and wallow in it until it passes, Austin.

    Seriously though, it'll happen from time to time. You just have to get through it, but we're here for you. [:D]
     
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  6. Darth_wanderguard

    Darth_wanderguard Force Ghost star 6

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    I heard that drugs help.

    In all seriousness, it'll pass. The most important thing is that you acknowledge it and deal with it. Just don't crawl in a hole and suffocate.
     
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  7. Obi-Zahn Kenobi

    Obi-Zahn Kenobi Jedi Grand Master star 7

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  8. Darth_Invidious

    Darth_Invidious Force Ghost star 6

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    That's part of it, brother. Expect a lot of ****days in the coming weeks. Maybe longer. Just hang in there. Distract yourself with whatever it is that'll certainly won't get you down. Get out of the house. Hang with friends. Get your mind off crap that won't do you any good. And yeah, as hard as it may be, try not to think about her. That means no emails, texts or calls, drunken or otherwise.
     
  9. Alpha-Red

    Alpha-Red Jedi Grand Master star 5

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    So uh, does this count as being permanently dumped? Or is there a possibility that you two might end up back together once she's done with traveling or whatever?
     
  10. Yo_Raja

    Yo_Raja Jedi Padawan star 4

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    =D= Alpha-Red, this was so called for.



    [face_plain]
     
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  11. Only-One Cannoli

    Only-One Cannoli Ex-Mod star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Prenn expect a good 4-6 months of "OH GOD WHY", followed by 3ish months of "I think I'm ok....OH GOD WHY...wait no I think I'm ok...", followed by 6months - 2 years of "I'm happy! Everything is good tod- OH GOD WHY! Oh wait, everything is great now. Really. OH GOD WHY"


    But the good news is that that's normal and varies person to person. It's supposed to happen. Try to avoid alcohol though for a while.
     
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  12. PRENNTACULAR

    PRENNTACULAR VIP star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Months?! Years?! :confused:
     
  13. VadersLaMent

    VadersLaMent 2017 Celebrity Deathpool Winner star 10

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    Go get a revenge girlfriend.
     
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  14. tom

    tom Chosen One star 7

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    "half the length of the relationship" gets thrown around a lot. everyone's different though.
     
  15. Billy_Dee_Binks

    Billy_Dee_Binks Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    Yeah, maybe her mom is the more mature version of your ex-finance.

    ...


    Okay, there was so much wrong with that suggestion, but it seemed to work out smoothly in the movie. :p
     
  16. Quixotic-Sith

    Quixotic-Sith Manager Emeritus star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    I think the technical term is "hooker", Montie.
     
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  17. Darth_Invidious

    Darth_Invidious Force Ghost star 6

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    Yeah...sometimes it can take much longer. Much, much longer... :(
     
  18. PRENNTACULAR

    PRENNTACULAR VIP star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Well, I went on a date last night. Not like a revenge date or an "I want a new girlfriend" date. Just out with a girl on a Friday night. It was fun. Today was good too. I haven't had any moments in the last couple days where I've been super sad or anything. Which kind of makes me happy, and kind of makes me worried that I'm going to have an OH GOD WHY night soon. Or something.
     
  19. Only-One Cannoli

    Only-One Cannoli Ex-Mod star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Oh. Try not to go on dates. The OH GOD WHYs are going to hit harder when they do come. But I suppose also some people recover differently than others so maybe that will help you.
     
  20. Rox

    Rox Administrator Emeritus star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Psh go on dates and one night stand yourself into oblivion.
     
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  21. Alpha-Red

    Alpha-Red Jedi Grand Master star 5

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    Eh? Seriously though, what's stopping him from getting back together with his (ex?) fiance in the future? It's probably painful as hell to think about at the moment, but the way I see it if she hasn't decided to marry someone else, it's not over.
     
  22. J_Girl

    J_Girl Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    I say yes, go on dates. Meeting new people is not a bad idea. Seeing that there are other actual possibilities in the world is a good thing. Besides the more new experiences you have with new people in the same or new places will help put the distance between you and your ex that you need to feel better. I would say no to jumping into any kind of of ongoing relationship right now. Lots of transitional dating, but be upfront that you are only interested in dating fun and 'new friends' right now.
     
  23. PRENNTACULAR

    PRENNTACULAR VIP star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Well I tried to go on a date with this guy named Arlon. But he rejected me.
     
  24. Sk_Skywalker14

    Sk_Skywalker14 Jedi Youngling

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    You got friend-zoned!? Ouch.. I totally get it... happens all the time
     
  25. J_Girl

    J_Girl Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    Nice to see you still have your sense of humor.