Lindsey I realize that because you are younger than we are my comments can be made to look like an attack when it certainly wasn't. I have enjoyed having you in the group you are very sweet I have never thought otherwise. I used one example of a time I felt Allyson had crossed the line by being overcontrolling. This whole situation to me proves my point. All I asked was that the group change enough so everyone feels comfortable. I haven't because when I disagree I get this same treatment. I get ganged up on and blatantly disrespected. For a club that is suppose to be fun all this drama is ridiculous. I think it would be a good idea if you had your parents read what you reading maybe the perspective would be different. But I was referring to a private party at my house that I would invite members to as my friends not official Mos Alba anything. I would not expect you to come unless your parents accompanied you. I would never serve you alcohol. I can not believe the pettiness in all this. Lindsey I never meant to hurt your feelings the real issue has to do with control. I don't appreciate being treated as if I am a wayward child that needs to be controlled. I am too old for this. I also have real problems in my life that I used this as a stress relief.