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JCC "Nice guys."

Discussion in 'Community' started by Only-One Cannoli, Aug 1, 2015.

  1. Only-One Cannoli

    Only-One Cannoli Ex-Mod star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Is there a way to get rid of them without setting them on fire.
     
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  2. JoinTheSchwarz

    JoinTheSchwarz Former Head Admin star 9 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Why wouldn't you set them on fire?
     
  3. Rosslcopter

    Rosslcopter Jedi Master star 4

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    Just go out with them already, you know you want to
     
  4. ShaneP

    ShaneP Ex-Mod Officio star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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  5. Only-One Cannoli

    Only-One Cannoli Ex-Mod star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Lonely/depressed/nerdy guys who are convinced you are the person of their dreams even though they don't know you but they constantly force aggressive kindness on you and refuse to take no as an answer.
     
  6. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    "...refuse to take no for an answer."

    Thread needs a retitle. I thought we were talking about nice guys.

    Dave is right. Set them on fire.

    If that doesn't work, take a **** with the bathroom door open, then set them on fire.
     
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  7. JoinTheSchwarz

    JoinTheSchwarz Former Head Admin star 9 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Guys who are only nice to hot girls they want to bone are not really nice.
     
  8. Only-One Cannoli

    Only-One Cannoli Ex-Mod star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    It's just been an issue that I haven't had to deal with before. Usually people leave me alone because I'm scary and don't have boobs. But it must be nice guy season because this is a thing happening quite often now, and it's very hard to ignore. Sadly I cannot burn them because of work regulations.
     
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  9. Darth Guy

    Darth Guy Chosen One star 10

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    You shouldn't have told that guy that you were a happy, apolitical cheerleader (but not for the popularity) who loves Disney movies.
     
  10. Zapdos

    Zapdos Force Ghost star 5

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    why dont you wanna go out with a nice guy™? i bet youre one of those girls who only go after jerks who never call you. you don't deserve a nice guy™ like me anyway
     
  11. Harpua

    Harpua Chosen One star 9

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    This guy gets it...

     
  12. ShaneP

    ShaneP Ex-Mod Officio star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Ahh okay. I missed the "" in the "Nice guys". The subtlety flew over my head. :p

    Aggressive kindess?

    Sounds about as effective as aggressive negotiations. We know how that turned out.
     
  13. Rogue1-and-a-half

    Rogue1-and-a-half Manager Emeritus who is writing his masterpiece star 9 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Didn't I just see you wielding a rifle in the pic thread? Just . . . well, wait, that was probably not a real one, was it?
     
  14. ShaneP

    ShaneP Ex-Mod Officio star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    This is at work? Does your employer have an HR person?
     
  15. Only-One Cannoli

    Only-One Cannoli Ex-Mod star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Mmm well no, we don't. But also it's because it's a field of people who just freelance and bounce from company to company every week. I mostly have the interactions outside of work in situations where it's not really controllable. Mutual friends, small field, unwanted interwebs messages.
     
  16. ShaneP

    ShaneP Ex-Mod Officio star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    I would just try and keep things where friends are always around in those situations. He will probably get the hint. If it is constant, then you should contact authorities or get some legal advice. This is a peer or is it a superior?
     
  17. Bob Crow

    Bob Crow Jedi Padawan star 1

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    Don't be nice to people and don't indulge the needy. It really is that simple.

    Sent from my SM-G920F using Tapatalk
     
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  18. EmpireForever

    EmpireForever Force Ghost star 8

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    Ooh, have any of them exploded on you yet? Post text logs plz.
     
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  19. Diggy

    Diggy Chosen One star 8

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    Tell them you're only into pegging, as far as sex goes.
     
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  20. TheAvengerButton

    TheAvengerButton Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    There really is no cure. People are stubborn enough to where they will ignore any and all signs in order to stroke their own fantasies. And then things can turn worse if said fantasies are unfulfilled.

    All of you are welcome for this very pessimistic post.
     
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  21. Kiki-Gonn

    Kiki-Gonn Jedi Grand Master star 6

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    Don't really have any advice for this other than what I generally do in life... ignore the problem and hope it goes away.
     
  22. Hogarth Wrightson

    Hogarth Wrightson Jedi Knight star 4

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    Why not tell them firmly, in a tone which brooks no contradiction, that you're absolutely not interested?
     
  23. EmpireForever

    EmpireForever Force Ghost star 8

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    The question is if there is a way to get rid of them, not how to get harassed by them.
     
  24. Harpua

    Harpua Chosen One star 9

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    Why do you assume that she hasn't already? lol... I love it when people lay all the blame on the woman, and not on the creep.
     
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  25. Hogarth Wrightson

    Hogarth Wrightson Jedi Knight star 4

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    Huh? The OP has given no clear account of the event(s). I'm not "assuming" anything, I'm not blaming her for anything. I'm asking a question to clarify what has and has not been tried.