Been there, too. Except it was the wife after 8 years of being together (dating and marriage), and she said she wanted us to be "roommates". That first Valentine's Day was murder. Get this, she sent me an e-mail message confessing that she and her new boyfriend had taken a shower together. The sad thing is, I'm pretty sure she didn't drop that bomb to rub it in, but was just telling me about her day.