Your a fan of the EU, and I get that. But the fact is, no matter how much you try to ignore and dismiss it, the majority of the ticket paying public will not care/ be unaware of these details. It will have no relevance to them at all. And if you find out before hand that Luke has no wife in the film, and Han and Leia's kids aren't would you expected them to be called, will that stop you from going to see the film? No, it won't will it. You'll be there queuing up like everyone else excitedly looking forward to the film.