Mirax is really busy at work and asked for a little help here. A couple of things: 1) There is nothing wrong with inviting someone from a neighboring FF to a meeting. That's what FanForce is all about, meeting other fans. If you guys are close enough to actually interact on a semi regular basis, consider yourselves lucky. I would love to have active chapters close enough to visit often. It isn't considered "stealing members" to invite others to events/meetings, especially if there are friendships involved. 2) Stop the gay bashing/calling people gay/calling people "out" etc. That's against the TOS on several levels and is very unfriendly besides. I am going to edit those comments out, and please don't make them again in the future as it will result in a ban. 3) Any and all cross chapter harassment needs to stop now, for both sides. Harassment can result in a very lengthy ban, as can unfounded accusations of harassment. This applies to unwanted phone calls, email/texts/IM/PM; lying about other members and spreading false stories. If your two chapters absolutely cannot get along then stay off each others forums and politely ignore each other at events. Ideally though we would like to see you guys work out your differences and get along. 4) Stop all of the name calling. I am going to edit out those comments as well. This applies to every one in both chapters. If anyone has any questions or comments feel free to drop me or Mirax a PM at any time. If you have a problem with other members of the forum please let us know and we will do out best to deal with it.