hurrrrry, I have to go soon. ehhhhhhh, come ooooon. And as for Faith Hill... yeah. Let's all go with that... In the meantime, I'll ask this, because I'd like to understand it. Let's take celebs out of the picture. Is the idea of keeping your own surmane a feminist ideal? Would most people do that with some misguided attitude towards life? My view is that you share a name, representative of your union. Of your love. And eventually, it becomes your family name. I'd hate to grow up with parents of different surnames. It just would wouldn't feel right. My family is the Downer's. It's not "the Downer's, except my Mum's a Thompson." But really, postie postie! I gotta go soon, and I won't be back for ages. By the way, welcome back.