Stop what you're doing right now

Discussion in 'United Kingdom' started by Wormie2, Feb 6, 2002.

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  1. Wormie2 Jedi Grand Master

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    groans

    Chet man, this is probably a girl who would like to get to know you before she gets to know you, ya boob!
  2. nemco1 Jedi Knight

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  3. pdubyuh Jedi Master

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    asking a girl if you can go up to her room doesn't seem that wierd to me
  4. Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Grand Master

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    you have such a big mouth.

    Anyways, she liked me and last week I didn' ask to go to her room. I arranged to meet her yesterday.
  5. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    So how do your chances stand now??

    A) V Good
    B) Good
    C) Not good
    D) Not Bad
    E) Bad
    F) V Bad
  6. Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Grand Master

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  7. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    Well that's good...

    basically my word of advise ( if you want to hear it ) is lay low on the double-entandres till you've bedded the wench ;)
  8. Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Grand Master

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    yup. I'm gonna be a gentleman now with her. She's meant to be coming out next week with a few of us.
  9. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    That's the ticket...

    compliments...lots of compliments
  10. Wormie2 Jedi Grand Master

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    But not slick Arun-esk type compliments. She'd be afraid of you getting oil all over her. ;)
  11. Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Grand Master

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    well the night started with lots of compliments and spiralled downards from there cause I got cocky.
  12. Wormie2 Jedi Grand Master

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    Mistake!

    Try humble. Just don't slide into pathetic.
  13. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    What are you saying Beth?

    Oily?
  14. MayhemUK Jedi Master

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    "I got one, I got one!"
    "Great kid, don't get cocky..."

    Amazing how you can relate SW to real life :p

    But seriously, play it low key and just give subtle hints and compliments. I've found that's worked best the last few years :)
  15. Wormie2 Jedi Grand Master

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    slimy, slick, greasy....you choose.
  16. Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Grand Master

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    pathetic? I wouldn't even know how to do that. ;)

  17. Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Grand Master

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    Actually Mayhem, you may be right. But I have no idea how to do it. What should I say/do?
  18. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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  19. MayhemUK Jedi Master

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    Well isn't just being a case of being yourself... sometimes you might have to suppress that a little, just in the beginning (depending on the kind of person you usually are!). Actually the easiest way I've found is to go in there with no pressure and just get to know the girl. Aim to be friends with her before going any further. Worked with Andrea and the girls I've been out with since. Not only do they feel less intimidated, it means if things
    don't work out you don't feel so shitty :D

    But I can hardly preach now, given my wonderful track record :p
  20. Tanktopgirl Jedi Grand Master

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    > Not only do they feel less intimidated

    I think I'd only ever be intimidated by a fella asking me out if he was wearing a Hockey Mask and weilding a flick knife
  21. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    So you don't mind the Freddy Kruger types?
  22. Tanktopgirl Jedi Grand Master

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    Nah. It's just masks that freak me out. Scalpel nails are something every girl looks for in a man...along with a bad hat and a positive mentalist attitude
  23. Arun Dale Jedi Grand Master

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    ..and I always thought it was stablity
  24. Tanktopgirl Jedi Grand Master

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    Stability? Yes, that helps. It's always far more impressive if your would-be date / attacker can actually stand up whilst tipping his bad hat in your direction.
  25. Jairen Manager Emeritus

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    Be very, very careful. Being friends can work, but be wary of THE FRIEND ZONE

    That is one place you never want to be if it's a girl you really like.

    Unfortunately for me, that is where I usually end up.

    Me, I'm about to start it all over again at the weekend. My best mate and his wife have set me up on a date with this girl they know. We're going for drinks Sunday afternoon.

    She has seen a picture of me, and my mate's talked my up to her, and I know only three things, her name, her age and her height. Really fair there then!

    Really thought I'm looking forward to it.
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