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Stop what you're doing right now

Discussion in 'United Kingdom' started by Wormie2, Feb 6, 2002.

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  1. Wormie2

    Wormie2 Jedi Knight star 6

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    groans

    Chet man, this is probably a girl who would like to get to know you before she gets to know you, ya boob!
     
  2. nemco1

    nemco1 Jedi Youngling star 2

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  3. pdubyuh

    pdubyuh Jedi Master star 4

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    asking a girl if you can go up to her room doesn't seem that wierd to me
     
  4. Ooh_Aah_Cantona

    Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Knight star 6

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    you have such a big mouth.

    Anyways, she liked me and last week I didn' ask to go to her room. I arranged to meet her yesterday.
     
  5. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    So how do your chances stand now??

    A) V Good
    B) Good
    C) Not good
    D) Not Bad
    E) Bad
    F) V Bad
     
  6. Ooh_Aah_Cantona

    Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Knight star 6

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  7. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    Well that's good...

    basically my word of advise ( if you want to hear it ) is lay low on the double-entandres till you've bedded the wench ;)
     
  8. Ooh_Aah_Cantona

    Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Knight star 6

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    yup. I'm gonna be a gentleman now with her. She's meant to be coming out next week with a few of us.
     
  9. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    That's the ticket...

    compliments...lots of compliments
     
  10. Wormie2

    Wormie2 Jedi Knight star 6

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    But not slick Arun-esk type compliments. She'd be afraid of you getting oil all over her. ;)
     
  11. Ooh_Aah_Cantona

    Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Knight star 6

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    well the night started with lots of compliments and spiralled downards from there cause I got cocky.
     
  12. Wormie2

    Wormie2 Jedi Knight star 6

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    Mistake!

    Try humble. Just don't slide into pathetic.
     
  13. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    What are you saying Beth?

    Oily?
     
  14. MayhemUK

    MayhemUK Jedi Padawan star 4

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    "I got one, I got one!"
    "Great kid, don't get cocky..."

    Amazing how you can relate SW to real life :p

    But seriously, play it low key and just give subtle hints and compliments. I've found that's worked best the last few years :)
     
  15. Wormie2

    Wormie2 Jedi Knight star 6

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    slimy, slick, greasy....you choose.
     
  16. Ooh_Aah_Cantona

    Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Knight star 6

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    pathetic? I wouldn't even know how to do that. ;)

     
  17. Ooh_Aah_Cantona

    Ooh_Aah_Cantona Jedi Knight star 6

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    Actually Mayhem, you may be right. But I have no idea how to do it. What should I say/do?
     
  18. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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  19. MayhemUK

    MayhemUK Jedi Padawan star 4

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    Well isn't just being a case of being yourself... sometimes you might have to suppress that a little, just in the beginning (depending on the kind of person you usually are!). Actually the easiest way I've found is to go in there with no pressure and just get to know the girl. Aim to be friends with her before going any further. Worked with Andrea and the girls I've been out with since. Not only do they feel less intimidated, it means if things
    don't work out you don't feel so ****** :D

    But I can hardly preach now, given my wonderful track record :p
     
  20. Tanktopgirl

    Tanktopgirl Jedi Knight star 5

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    > Not only do they feel less intimidated

    I think I'd only ever be intimidated by a fella asking me out if he was wearing a Hockey Mask and weilding a flick knife
     
  21. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    So you don't mind the Freddy Kruger types?
     
  22. Tanktopgirl

    Tanktopgirl Jedi Knight star 5

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    Nah. It's just masks that freak me out. Scalpel nails are something every girl looks for in a man...along with a bad hat and a positive mentalist attitude
     
  23. Arun Dale

    Arun Dale Jedi Knight star 6

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    ..and I always thought it was stablity
     
  24. Tanktopgirl

    Tanktopgirl Jedi Knight star 5

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    Stability? Yes, that helps. It's always far more impressive if your would-be date / attacker can actually stand up whilst tipping his bad hat in your direction.
     
  25. Jairen

    Jairen Manager Emeritus star 4 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Be very, very careful. Being friends can work, but be wary of THE FRIEND ZONE

    That is one place you never want to be if it's a girl you really like.

    Unfortunately for me, that is where I usually end up.

    Me, I'm about to start it all over again at the weekend. My best mate and his wife have set me up on a date with this girl they know. We're going for drinks Sunday afternoon.

    She has seen a picture of me, and my mate's talked my up to her, and I know only three things, her name, her age and her height. Really fair there then!

    Really thought I'm looking forward to it.
     
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