Turned Down By Another Girl :(

Today I asked this girl I really like out but she said she couldn't because her mom didn't think it would be right because I once went out with her best friend. I feel really bad now and she really likes me too. What am I to do?

 

how do you know she likes you?? How long has it been since you went out with the friend and what happened?

 

She told me she likes me. I broke up with her friend because she would never trust me and was always a bi*ch to me. I don't see whats the problem because she has a boyfriend now.

 

well at least you have the guts to ask out a girl cause i can't and it sucks. the fear of rejection and the girl laughing at me kills me up inside.

 

you dont date your exs best friend, that goes for guys and gals, esp if you dumped them...its an unwritten rule!

 

says who?

 

It was so hard for me to ask her because she is like my best friend. Whats so wrong with dating a friend's ex?

 

Im so upset!

 

ah well. at least you tried, right?

 

You shouldn't mess with tha whole friend of a friend thang, girls talk hella crap.

 

But I really like her! Why can't she date a friend's ex???

 

Its like sloppy seconds.

 

It's not like I did anything we just kissed ONCE!

 

She can taste her.

 

Ask her again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, until she gives in. or just go ask someone else out.

 

That is nothing. My last girl ditched me for another guy, and three days later married him. Now they are getting a divorce becuase she finally realized the guy was an arse.

 

So what am I going to do with her?

 

Date her in secret then ie. without her parents finding out. It'd be like a sitcom! Oh the wacky adventures you'd have!

There is some truth in the above ^

 

if she truely does like you, she will come around. maybe while waiting, if you have the guts which im sure you do, ask if your ex minds if you go out with her best friend and if the you girl like minds it if shes your ex's bf. it might shed some light. and like some other guys in here said, at least you can ask one out.

like yodaluke-wan said it tears him up inside. theres this girl i like for about 3 years now. i almost asked her out, but i lost it and didnt. and now she has a boyfriend who i dont know. and when i first saw him, it made me feel pissed off at myself because that could be me with her. plus he looks like a twieker(sp?) and i dont know if hes treating her right. tears me up not knowing. and i have a friend who is friends with her who thinks the same thing.

anyway good luck with it

 

Hey, I once chased after a girl who was dating a friend of mine.

Of course, it's ten years later and we're still together, so these things can work out.

If you really like her, and she's truly into you, don't give up. Just be cool about it.

 

My ex is ok with it. It's just her parents. How can I date her secretely?

 

Well, I suppose you would have to wear a disguise of some sort.

 

Would her parents really have to know?

Bah! Relationships! Why can't mine ever work out? [oscar_face]WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!?!??!!?! [/oscar_face]

 

NEVER NEVER! TRUST A WOMEN!

they say they love you and next thing you know it they rip out your heart with a spoon and fead it to thear dog "smily" which isnt a whole lota fun!

 

Yeah, but they're so purty!



I hate being alone.