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JCC We just lost our next baby

Discussion in 'Community' started by Valyn, Sep 5, 2012.

  1. Valyn

    Valyn Jedi Master star 8

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    Two months ago, we found out we were pregnant again. We wanted to give our daughter a sibling close to her age, so we were excited. Two months of name selecting, of telling friends and family, of predicting how our daughter would react, of anticipating what our new addition would be like, of what his/her smiles would look like, of the joys we'd be welcoming in our lives...

    During a routine check-up and sonogram, the doctors found that our little one's heart stopped beating.

    We're now having to go through the miserable aftermath that comes with miscarriage. Foremost on the list, the procedure to remove the dead fetus from the womb.

    But even worse is the heartache. We work with a pregnant woman who smokes, who drinks soda like it's going out of style, and who knows? Maybe she drinks at home. But she's almost nine months now.

    We're devastated...we did everything clean, just as last time. No caffeine, no alcohol or smoking, vitamins and healthy foods, talking of and to our little one in the womb.

    And now he or she is gone...and while I'm still struggling to accept that, my fiancee is a wreck over everything else.

    Even our daughter suddenly started to scream when the doctor told us.
     
  2. Obi-Zahn Kenobi

    Obi-Zahn Kenobi Jedi Grand Master star 7

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    I'm so sorry, Valyn.
     
  3. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Nightsister of Four Realms star 9 Staff Member Manager

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    I'm sorry, Valyn. :(
     
  4. Souderwan

    Souderwan Jedi Grand Master star 6

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    Damn. There just aren't words to describe...I'm so sorry. My heartfelt condolences.
     
  5. Veloz

    Veloz Jedi Master star 6

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    Aww i'm so sorry for your loss, Valyn :(.
     
  6. Juliet316

    Juliet316 Chosen One star 10

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    *hugs* I'm so, so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers
     
  7. PrincessKenobi

    PrincessKenobi New Films Manager star 7 Staff Member Manager

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    I am so sorry for your loss Vayln.
     
  8. Rox

    Rox Administrator Emeritus star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    I'm so sorry for your loss, your family will be in my prayers tonight.
     
  9. DarthTunick

    DarthTunick SfC Part IV Commissioner star 10 VIP - Game Host

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    No family, mother, etc. should have to go through an experience such as this... sorry to hear about this, Valyn.
     
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  10. jp-30

    jp-30 Manager Emeritus star 10 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    I thought you had left your wife. At any rate, I'm very sorry to hear the news.
     
  11. Jabba-wocky

    Jabba-wocky Chosen One star 9

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    My condolences to your family.
     
  12. Valairy Scot

    Valairy Scot Backpacking One Pack a Day Mod of New Films star 6 Staff Member Manager

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    Condolences and @};-. It's a devastating loss, for sure.
     
  13. Juliet316

    Juliet316 Chosen One star 10

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    Was this really the post to ask that JP?
     
  14. timmoishere

    timmoishere Jedi Grand Master star 6

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    PK EDIT: Not appropriate.
     
  15. Juliet316

    Juliet316 Chosen One star 10

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    Please tell me you were referring to jp-30 asking about the state of valyn's marriage.
     
  16. PRENNTACULAR

    PRENNTACULAR VIP star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    **** man. ****.
     
  17. Only-One Cannoli

    Only-One Cannoli Ex-Mod star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Time and place, timmo.
     
  18. Adam of Nuchtern

    Adam of Nuchtern Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    I'm really sorry for your loss, Valyn.
     
  19. harpua

    harpua Chosen One star 9

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    wtf? Jesus, have a little bit of compassion.

    Sorry to hear, Valyn. Take your time to heal from this. Maybe seek out some counseling (individual and couple) to help you guys get through the immense grief you must be feeling.
     
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  20. timmoishere

    timmoishere Jedi Grand Master star 6

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    EDIT: Inappropriate Post
     
  21. PrincessKenobi

    PrincessKenobi New Films Manager star 7 Staff Member Manager

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    This is the only time I will post this. Be respectful. There is a time and place. Anything else that is posted that is troll-ish in nature will result in a break from the forums.
     
  22. harpua

    harpua Chosen One star 9

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    There's not much you can do about any loss.... that doesn't mean that you should go around being a chode when somebody is expressing their grief.
     
  23. Juliet316

    Juliet316 Chosen One star 10

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  24. zigazigahh

    zigazigahh Jedi Knight star 1

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    I am so sorry for your loss Valyn. I'm wishing you and your wife peace, and I hope that the rest of your thread will be *** free. (Am I allowed to say ***?)

    Nope.
     
  25. harpua

    harpua Chosen One star 9

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    Anyway, we've fed the troll enough... sorry that happened in your thread, Valyn.