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Discussion in 'Community' started by Valyn, Sep 5, 2012.

  1. Chewgumma

    Chewgumma Force Ghost star 7

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    I can't even pretend to imagine what you are going through right now. You have my deepest condolences Valyn.
     
  2. FamousAmos

    FamousAmos VIP star 6 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Feb 9, 2003
    My condolences for you and your wife's loss, Valyn.
     
  3. GrandAdmiralJello

    GrandAdmiralJello Comms Admin ❉ Moderator Communitatis Litterarumque star 10 Staff Member Administrator

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    Nov 28, 2000
    Really sorry to hear that, Valyn. Hope you guys are ok.
     
  4. Darth Morella

    Darth Morella Jedi Grand Master star 6

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    My condolences.
     
  5. Falcon

    Falcon Chosen One star 10

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    Feb 7, 2002
    I'm sorry for your loss Valyn @};-

    One day what you're feeling now will turn into joy later. Hang in there [:D]
     
  6. NYCitygurl

    NYCitygurl Manager Emeritus star 9 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Jul 20, 2002
    I'm so sorry, Valyn.
     
  7. Mar17swgirl

    Mar17swgirl Jedi Grand Master star 7

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    Dec 26, 2000
    I'm so sorry for your loss, Valyn. :(
     
  8. Rogue_Ten

    Rogue_Ten Chosen One star 7

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    Aug 18, 2002
    that's terrible, valyn. be strong, be well, and know that you will recover
     
  9. LAJ_FETT

    LAJ_FETT Tech Admin and Collecting/Lucasfilm Ltd Mod star 9 Staff Member Administrator

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    May 25, 2002
    Sorry to hear this, Valyn. My thoughts go out to you and your family. @};-
     
  10. Healer_Leona

    Healer_Leona Squirrely Community Mod star 9 Staff Member Manager

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    Jul 7, 2000
    Can't even imagine how hard this must be. I'm so sorry.
     
  11. soitscometothis

    soitscometothis Jedi Grand Master star 5

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    Jul 11, 2003
    I'm really sorry, I know you and your wife must feel crushed by this. I hope your pain eases with time.
     
  12. Darth_Invidious

    Darth_Invidious Force Ghost star 6

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    Jun 21, 1999
    I'm very sorry for your loss bro. Me and my wife, well, it seems it's never gonna happen for us naturally, but that doesn't compare with what you and your gf are going through right now. Just...be there for her and your daughter. Hold them tight, love them and cherish them and support one another through this.
     
  13. PirateofRohan

    PirateofRohan Jedi Knight star 3

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    Dec 11, 2009
    My most sincere condolences for you and your family on this horrible tragedy. You are all in my prayers.
     
  14. Kiki-Gonn

    Kiki-Gonn Jedi Grand Master star 6

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    Feb 26, 2001
    So sorry to hear that. The best to you and your family.
     
  15. Jabbadabbado

    Jabbadabbado Manager Emeritus star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Mar 19, 1999
    I'm so sorry. My wife miscarried too, and I can still remember the sense of grief and loss clearly, even though it's been fourteen years.
     
  16. Valyn

    Valyn Jedi Master star 8

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    Mar 2, 2002
    Jabba: I'm sorry you and your family also endured this.

    Everyone else: Thanks for your kind words (I missed the whole trolling bit). I never really realized how I felt until just now, after reading Jabba's post. Loss is definitely how I feel. It's like all those hopes and ideas you were having about this little life are suddenly all snatched away, leaving a miserable hole in its place.

    But there's also a note of frustration. Frustration with all the medical bills that are involved despite having insurance. Everyone is calling us demanding payment up front for the upcoming DNC (procedure to remove the fetus). Everyone wants several hundred dollars. No kind words of condolences, no expressions of sympathy. Just a recurring pattern of "Pay us now, pay us now, pay us now, pay us now."
     
  17. solojones

    solojones Force Ghost star 9

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    Sep 27, 2000
    God, I'm so sorry Valyn. And doubly so that the [insert many expletives] at the hospital are just making it worse.
     
  18. Ghost

    Ghost Chosen One star 7

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    Oct 13, 2003
    I'm so sorry for your loss. @};- My mother lost a baby between me and my younger sister.
     
  19. Katya Jade

    Katya Jade Administrator Emeritus star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    So, so sorry Valyn.
     
  20. DarthCane

    DarthCane Jedi Master star 4

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    May 30, 2002
    I'm sorry, Valyn. That's a hell of a punch to take.
     
  21. Katana_Geldar

    Katana_Geldar Jedi Grand Master star 8

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    Mar 3, 2003
    I'm so sorry, Valyn. I really don't know what to say. Some things are just so unfair.

    How is your fiancé doing?

    And the hospital, they're soulless. I hope you tell them what's what.
     
  22. Juliet316

    Juliet316 Chosen One star 10

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    Apr 27, 2005
    I have no words. The penny pinchers that run hospitals these days are truly heartless.
     
  23. mrsvos

    mrsvos Jedi Grand Master star 5

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    Nov 18, 2005
    Sorry to hear this. My thoughts go out to you, your wife and daughter and your little angel baby@};-
     
  24. Jedi Merkurian

    Jedi Merkurian ST Thread Reaper and Rumor Naysayer star 6 Staff Member Manager

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    May 25, 2000
    no...words...

    *hugs*
     
  25. ShaneP

    ShaneP Ex-Mod Officio star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Mar 26, 2001
    Condolences to you and your loved ones.