JCC We just lost our next baby

Discussion in 'Community' started by Valyn, Sep 5, 2012.

  1. Chewgumma Chosen One

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    I can't even pretend to imagine what you are going through right now. You have my deepest condolences Valyn.
  2. FamousAmos VIP

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    My condolences for you and your wife's loss, Valyn.
  3. GrandAdmiralJello Moderator Communitatis Litterarumque

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    Really sorry to hear that, Valyn. Hope you guys are ok.
  4. Darth Morella Force Ghost

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  5. Falcon Chosen One

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    I'm sorry for your loss Valyn @};-

    One day what you're feeling now will turn into joy later. Hang in there [:D]
  6. NYCitygurl NSWFF Manager

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  7. Mar17swgirl Chosen One

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    I'm so sorry for your loss, Valyn. :(
  8. Rogue_Ten Chosen One

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    that's terrible, valyn. be strong, be well, and know that you will recover
  9. LAJ_FETT Tech Admin and Collecting/Games Mod

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    Sorry to hear this, Valyn. My thoughts go out to you and your family. @};-
    Last edited by LAJ_FETT, Sep 6, 2012
  10. Healer_Leona Manager Emeritus

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    Can't even imagine how hard this must be. I'm so sorry.
  11. soitscometothis Force Ghost

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    I'm really sorry, I know you and your wife must feel crushed by this. I hope your pain eases with time.
  12. Darth_Invidious Chosen One

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    I'm very sorry for your loss bro. Me and my wife, well, it seems it's never gonna happen for us naturally, but that doesn't compare with what you and your gf are going through right now. Just...be there for her and your daughter. Hold them tight, love them and cherish them and support one another through this.
  13. PirateofRohan Jedi Grand Master

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    My most sincere condolences for you and your family on this horrible tragedy. You are all in my prayers.
  14. Kiki-Gonn Chosen One

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    So sorry to hear that. The best to you and your family.
  15. Jabbadabbado Manager Emeritus

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    I'm so sorry. My wife miscarried too, and I can still remember the sense of grief and loss clearly, even though it's been fourteen years.
  16. Valyn Force Ghost

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    Jabba: I'm sorry you and your family also endured this.

    Everyone else: Thanks for your kind words (I missed the whole trolling bit). I never really realized how I felt until just now, after reading Jabba's post. Loss is definitely how I feel. It's like all those hopes and ideas you were having about this little life are suddenly all snatched away, leaving a miserable hole in its place.

    But there's also a note of frustration. Frustration with all the medical bills that are involved despite having insurance. Everyone is calling us demanding payment up front for the upcoming DNC (procedure to remove the fetus). Everyone wants several hundred dollars. No kind words of condolences, no expressions of sympathy. Just a recurring pattern of "Pay us now, pay us now, pay us now, pay us now."
  17. solojones Chosen One

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    God, I'm so sorry Valyn. And doubly so that the [insert many expletives] at the hospital are just making it worse.
  18. Ghost Chosen One

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. @};- My mother lost a baby between me and my younger sister.
  19. Katya Jade Administrator Emeritus

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  20. DarthCane Force Ghost

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    I'm sorry, Valyn. That's a hell of a punch to take.
  21. Katana_Geldar Force Ghost

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    I'm so sorry, Valyn. I really don't know what to say. Some things are just so unfair.

    How is your fiancé doing?

    And the hospital, they're soulless. I hope you tell them what's what.
  22. Juliet316 Chosen One

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    I have no words. The penny pinchers that run hospitals these days are truly heartless.
  23. mrsvos Force Ghost

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    Sorry to hear this. My thoughts go out to you, your wife and daughter and your little angel baby@};-
  24. Jedi Merkurian Episode VII Thread-Reaper and Rumor Naysayer

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  25. ShaneP Ex-Mod Officio

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    Condolences to you and your loved ones.