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JCC We just lost our next baby

Discussion in 'Community' started by Valyn, Sep 5, 2012.

  1. GenAntilles

    GenAntilles Jedi Grand Master star 5

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    No parent should ever outlive their child. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. @};-
     
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  2. Lady_Sami_J_Kenobi

    Lady_Sami_J_Kenobi Jedi Master star 6

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    Jul 31, 2002
    So sorry to hear of your loss, Valyn. @};- It will get better with time. [:D] And for the &*%$#@ at the hospital, there are no words. :rolleyes:
     
  3. KissMeImARebel

    KissMeImARebel Jedi Grand Master star 5

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    Am very sorry for your loss and the difficulties you're still facing. I'm nowhere near the point of children but I can't even imagine what you and your partner must be going through. I'll keep your family in my thoughts.
     
  4. Aytee-Aytee

    Aytee-Aytee Jedi Master star 5

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    Ugh. Just.....UGH.

    I'm so sorry V.
     
  5. Jedi_Matt

    Jedi_Matt Jedi Master star 4

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    Jul 11, 2002
    My condolences Valyn.

    The world won't seem fair at the moment, such as your example of the smoker you work with, but you will need to be there for your partner (and she for you) and daughter.

    Stay strong mate.
     
  6. SWpants

    SWpants Jedi Grand Master star 5

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    Oct 28, 2004
    Valyn, I am so sorry to hear that. What's worse, I think, is that it wasn't a usual miscarriage. My heart breaks for you, your fiancee and daughter. I will definitely keep you in my prayers and thoughts.
     
  7. epic

    epic Ex Mod star 8 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Jul 4, 1999
    i guess this is why people don't tell friends and family etc until after the first trimester. must be difficult for everyone.

    sorry to hear about your loss, Valyn.
     
  8. epic

    epic Ex Mod star 8 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Jul 4, 1999
    never heard that expression before in relation to an unborn baby. or is it just me?
     
  9. TheGuardianofArlon

    TheGuardianofArlon Jedi Master star 6

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    Feb 26, 2007
    As a person who wants many kids, this too would be a nightmare for me. I am so sorry man.
     
  10. Jabbadabbado

    Jabbadabbado Manager Emeritus star 7 VIP - Former Mod/RSA

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    Mar 19, 1999
    For a pregnant woman and a couple trying to have a baby, once you've had that first ultrasound or listened to the heartbeat, then you have a child, in your mind at least.
     
  11. Valyn

    Valyn Jedi Master star 8

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    Mar 2, 2002
    He or she was a life with a beating heart just last week...

    Anyway, the DNC was this morning and it went over smoothly. Now it's time to heal and return to work to try and afford all those bills.

    Thanks again everyone for your support. Sometimes when I'm really sad about all this, I go to this thread and your sympathy has been truly appreciated.
     
  12. TheGuardianofArlon

    TheGuardianofArlon Jedi Master star 6

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    Feb 26, 2007
    Would you like some sort of contributionous help?
     
  13. Valyn

    Valyn Jedi Master star 8

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    Mar 2, 2002
    I appreciate the consideration, but I think we're going to try to plow through this. It just would have been so much more...human if these bill collectors had shown some sort of sympathy.
     
  14. DarthCane

    DarthCane Jedi Master star 4

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    May 30, 2002
    Somehow I doubt sympathy was in their corporate training seminars. Take care of your family's grief before dealing with those jerks.