JCC We just lost our next baby

Discussion in 'Community' started by Valyn, Sep 5, 2012.

  1. GenAntilles Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    Jul 24, 2007
    star 4
    No parent should ever outlive their child. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. @};-
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  2. Lady_Sami_J_Kenobi Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    Jul 31, 2002
    star 6
    So sorry to hear of your loss, Valyn. @};- It will get better with time. [:D] And for the &*%$#@ at the hospital, there are no words. :rolleyes:
  3. KissMeImARebel Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    Nov 25, 2003
    star 4
    Am very sorry for your loss and the difficulties you're still facing. I'm nowhere near the point of children but I can't even imagine what you and your partner must be going through. I'll keep your family in my thoughts.
  4. Aytee-Aytee Force Ghost

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    Jul 20, 2008
    star 5
    Ugh. Just.....UGH.

    I'm so sorry V.
  5. Jedi_Matt Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    Jul 11, 2002
    star 4
    My condolences Valyn.

    The world won't seem fair at the moment, such as your example of the smoker you work with, but you will need to be there for your partner (and she for you) and daughter.

    Stay strong mate.
    Last edited by Jedi_Matt, Sep 7, 2012
  6. SWpants Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    Oct 28, 2004
    star 4
    Valyn, I am so sorry to hear that. What's worse, I think, is that it wasn't a usual miscarriage. My heart breaks for you, your fiancee and daughter. I will definitely keep you in my prayers and thoughts.
  7. epic Ex Mod / RSA

    Member Since:
    Jul 4, 1999
    star 7
    i guess this is why people don't tell friends and family etc until after the first trimester. must be difficult for everyone.

    sorry to hear about your loss, Valyn.
  8. epic Ex Mod / RSA

    Member Since:
    Jul 4, 1999
    star 7
    never heard that expression before in relation to an unborn baby. or is it just me?
    Last edited by epic, Sep 7, 2012
  9. TheGuardianofArlon Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    Feb 26, 2007
    star 6
    As a person who wants many kids, this too would be a nightmare for me. I am so sorry man.
  10. Jabbadabbado Manager Emeritus

    Member Since:
    Mar 19, 1999
    star 7
    For a pregnant woman and a couple trying to have a baby, once you've had that first ultrasound or listened to the heartbeat, then you have a child, in your mind at least.
    Last edited by Jabbadabbado, Sep 7, 2012
  11. Valyn Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    Mar 2, 2002
    star 8
    He or she was a life with a beating heart just last week...

    Anyway, the DNC was this morning and it went over smoothly. Now it's time to heal and return to work to try and afford all those bills.

    Thanks again everyone for your support. Sometimes when I'm really sad about all this, I go to this thread and your sympathy has been truly appreciated.
  12. TheGuardianofArlon Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    Feb 26, 2007
    star 6
    Would you like some sort of contributionous help?
  13. Valyn Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    Mar 2, 2002
    star 8
    I appreciate the consideration, but I think we're going to try to plow through this. It just would have been so much more...human if these bill collectors had shown some sort of sympathy.
  14. DarthCane Force Ghost

    Member Since:
    May 30, 2002
    star 4
    Somehow I doubt sympathy was in their corporate training seminars. Take care of your family's grief before dealing with those jerks.