Discussion in 'Community' started by beezel26, Jan 9, 2013.
Posting awful advice threads to JCC.
I have zero relationship with my neighbors, I don't know their names and literally have never said anything to any of them. I don't think I care enough about any of them to intervene, but it may be harder than I think to ignore someone so close who really needs help.
I don't approve of slangin' in my hood, but as long as it doesn't get out of control I'd probably stay out of it.
I wouldn't get involved in child abuse unless I thought the kid was taking a real beating. I probably wouldn't get involved with spousal abuse at all. This is definitely something that might be too painful to ignore.
I don't care about making noise unless it's really out of control and disruptive. I'll never care about parking spaces.
Yeah, if I actually suspected murder, I'd drop a dime.
I usually stay out of their business and I expect the same.
my thoughts on this subject are well known:
Okay, Riley Freeman.....
Any breaking of the law or any other regulations that are in place. It helps that my unofficial position at my old dorm was 'Dorm Gestapo'
I approve but I don't understand. I just can't keep up with the slang the kids are using these days.
Whilst I know your beliefs will be conflicted by the following, I feel compelled to advise you this was not a term of affection.
I would never, ever unleash a rat infestation on my neighbor. What kind of jerk does that?
I lived across the street from a drug dealer once. I'm pretty sure it was just soft drugs, mostly pot. I never ratted on him. Whatever.
I don't have a very specific answer but anything that put my wife and son in danger I wouldn't want going on next door to me. I had a downstairs neighbor at my last apartment that would beat his wife all the time. I called the cops several times. One night I came home from work and he was beating her on the front steps. They were gone the next day after that one.
One time poor beezel could not sleep because some foreign woman was screaming in unAmerican jibberish whilst being choke-slammed by her husband. We collectively classified the incident as noise pollution.
If Beezel was my neighbor, I would definitely rat on him.
Being a butthead.
Called the cops in relation to a neighbor about 45 minutes ago. Lady of the house had gone out and the burglar alarm starting going off about 15 minutes or so later. I knew no one was home so after making sure what house it was I let the cops know in case someone had broken in. Turns out the cops won't even check it out unless there's signs of forced entry. I looked as much as I could considering the fence between our building and the house but didn't see any signs of broken windows or forced doors.
Otherwise I operate on 'live and let live'. The neighbors in the other flats in the building are pretty quiet so no problems there.
When I lived in the projects we had a drug dealer next store. He was a good guy, never did anything wrong and actually dealt drugs the next city over. He helped my mom out and was a great guy. Honestly, I can tolerate practically anyone as long as they are a good neighbor. Its surprising how much a person can get away with if they are a good guy. Yet play loud music and have parties and disturb the neighbors and expect nothing in return.
And honestly, why do abusers continue to hit their spouses when there are witnesses around?
Update to my earlier post - lady of the house came home and I went over and told her about the alarm. She thanked me and said she'd known it had gone off because of the lights. Said it had been caused by her daughter's helium balloon migrating from the daughter's bedroom downstairs into the kitchen where it set off a sensor.
That definitely would not have been my first guess!
Because most are arrogant enough to believe that nobody will call the cops on them figuring that most will have the "live and let be" attitude. And sadly, most times, their right.
I would report my neighbors if they were communists handing out them there communist literature.
I would recommend not ratting on drug dealers, lest you find yourself in a world of pain. I would be surprised if you ratted on one and there were no repercussions towards you, honestly. Also, as someone surrounded by such people, I wouldn't even be concerned with what they do. Because they're going to do it either way even if they get busted. But more than likely they're going to die in a ditch. So just let nature take its course.
That is the thing, drug dealers know who you are and what you have seen. If they are nice to you and none of their customers rob you and your stuff then they are in the clear. Most people let the police deal with it. If it doesn't affect them then they don't care. Dealers know that if they are causing trouble and pissing the neighbors off its only a matter of time. Moonshiners share some of their proceeds with the neighbors so they have no need to rat.