LOL, whatever. Personal attacks aren't warranted and are against the TOS, you know that. I am in Oregon at least 7-8 weeks of the year on average, and my girlfriend is in Oregon too, not to mention it's still "home" in many respects. You think it's elitist to judge anyone based on anything, well that's just life -- people judge. It's human nature. It's called having standards. I think it's a huge mistake for anyone to have kids before 30, but that doesn't mean people don't do it. It's their lives, they can make whatever mistakes they want.