JUST A GENERAL OBSERVATION...NOT HAVING A GO AT ANYONE! Schedules are a funny thing, we always use them as an excuse to get out of things "Sorry mate, I've got such a busy schedule these days" but we always find the time to do the things WE really want to do. Not wanting to play any sort of sympathy card here.....speaking as a Victoria that came close to perhaps never being able to speak to his family again.....STUFF THE SCHEDULE....make time for people and make sure you tell them how important they are in your life. The people you included in your life today, could be the people that will save your life tomorrow. Clear the shedule of unimportant things for a change, and waste a day with friends or family, you never know when it might happen again.