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Terpmaniac09  3062 posts
Registered: Jan '03
6596_Luke Skywalker
Date Posted: 12/16/03 11:44am Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
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Space_Man  997 posts
Registered: Aug '03
Date Posted: 12/16/03 3:06pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Qui-Gon-Jinn2: confused Can you elaborate on the situation a bit more?

 

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Terpmaniac09  3062 posts
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6596_Luke Skywalker
Date Posted: 12/16/03 3:47pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
^^^^^^^^
Yeah

 

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CUBIE_HOLE  1458 posts
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8218_Vader<br>Underoos
Date Posted: 12/16/03 4:58pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
There's nothing he can elaborate on. He probably got arrested trying to rekindle the relationship.

 

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Jedi_Commander_Faofa  4021 posts
Registered: Mar '03
46176_River Tam
Date Posted: 12/16/03 6:09pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Hmmm...

I have known this girl for a long time, about 4 years now, and I didn't really get to know her until the past 2 years.

Now, since we hang around together all the time, I have been getting asked questions like "Are you going out with her?" etc. I am going to ask her out sometime, but I am waiting for the opportune moment, like Jack Sparrow says in my sig. wink People have told me that she wants to go out with me, but I don't really trust that many people with info like that.

My question is:
If the above comments are true, should I ask her out now, or wait for the opportune moment, like I think it should be done? BTW, I do really like her a lot.

The last thing I want to seem like is careless with my thoughts..

Sorry bout the rant, just wanted to get that out of my system. wink Not sure how this one will turn out. wink I like taking risks. It's how you learn.

 

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orangefuzz  2194 posts
Registered: Feb '03
40174_George Lucas Vader
Date Posted: 12/16/03 6:11pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Hey I was thinking about asking the lunchlady at my school out. I really like her a lot even if she smells of sloppy joe. I think we have a sort of connection. What are your guys thoughts?

 

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Minerva_Ulch 
Registered: Nov '03
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Date Posted: 12/16/03 7:31pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
If she's wearing a red sweatshirt, hit it.

 

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womberty  3669 posts
Registered: Jan '02
Date Posted: 12/16/03 7:53pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
If the above comments are true, should I ask her out now, or wait for the opportune moment, like I think it should be done? BTW, I do really like her a lot.

Try a little shameless flirting first. Worked with me. wink

 

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CUBIE_HOLE  1458 posts
Registered: Jun '01
8218_Vader<br>Underoos
Date Posted: 12/16/03 8:51pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
If you want to ask her out, then go ahead an do it. I doubt you need to wait for the opportune moment, because if the girl likes you, just about anytime is opportune. Asking someone out is just that. It's not some cataclysmic event that requires intense planning and the alignment of the stars and planets.

If the girl likes you, you could just as easily call/go see her now, and with a little small talk, ask her out and get a yes. All the waiting and preparation does nothing but put pressure on you and the situation. Keep it simple.

 

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orangefuzz  2194 posts
Registered: Feb '03
40174_George Lucas Vader
Date Posted: 12/17/03 4:22pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
I saw the lunchlady at school today. I gave her a box of chocolates for Christmas. She blushed and said thank you. I blushed too. Do you think she likes me?

 

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womberty  3669 posts
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Date Posted: 12/17/03 4:26pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large - Date Edited: 12/17/03 4:26pm (1 edits total) Edited By: womberty
Unless she's under 18, yours is a forbidden romance...

 

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Malshabek  11111 posts
Registered: Oct '02
23973_Yuuzhan Vong
Date Posted: 12/17/03 4:37pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Is it a good sign when a girl you haven't seen in months runs up and hugs you? ?:|

I was at the ROTK showing last night and afterwords I ran into this girl in question. When she spotted me from half-way across the theater lobby, she ran up and hugged me. Almost knocked me over when she did that too...

We didnt get the chance to talk long since the theater was closing, but she seemed very happy to see me.
And I'm just left here to wonder why I guess. tongue

 

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FareLenore  7069 posts
Registered: Oct '03
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Date Posted: 12/17/03 4:38pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
It's because you're hot Malshabek. wink Go with it.

 

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womberty  3669 posts
Registered: Jan '02
Date Posted: 12/17/03 4:40pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Hmmm. Hugs mean different things to different people.

I would say it's a good sign, but maybe not as good as you'd like. wink

Do you know how to get in touch with her? If so, call or e-mail her to let her know you were glad to see her and ask whether she wants to get together for coffee/lunch/another movie/your choice of event.

 

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Malshabek  11111 posts
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23973_Yuuzhan Vong
Date Posted: 12/17/03 4:43pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large - Date Edited: 12/17/03 4:47pm (1 edits total) Edited By: Malshabek
I'm not really sure if I'd go for it even if she liked me.


Dont get me wrong, she's a great girl and all...
I'm not exactly the 'healthy relationship' kind of guy right now... tongue

I was just trying to get an idea of her true intentions so I could decide what to do next.



EDIT: Farelenore, I do believe you're flirting with me. wink tongue

 

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