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womberty Registered: Jan '02	Date Posted: 12/17/03 4:47pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	Well, why not "go for" a friendship? I mean, unless you're worried that she likes you as more than a friend... How well did you know her before?
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Malshabek Registered: Oct '02	Date Posted: 12/17/03 4:50pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	I worked with her for over a year and started hearing rumors that she had a crush on me about 3 months before I quit my job there... I guess I know her pretty well. And I already consider her to be a good friend of mine. And it HAS been a while since I've seen her. I doubt she went to the movie last night by herself. If she's taken already then my life gets much simpler. -----signature----- I don't care if I pass your test I don't care if I follow your rules If you can cheat, so can I I won't let you beat me unfairly I'll beat you unfairly first
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womberty Registered: Jan '02	Date Posted: 12/17/03 5:11pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	If you consider her a good friend, by all means, make sure you stay in touch with her. Just try not to seem like you're romantically interested if you're not.
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Malshabek Registered: Oct '02	Date Posted: 12/17/03 5:15pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	Thats the confusing part. Its not that I'm not interested in her. She's a really nice girl and I'm... really not a nice person to deal with on a regular basis. I dont want to put her through hell, you know? She doesn't deserve that. Oh well, thats another topic entirely... Thanks for the advice. -----signature----- I don't care if I pass your test I don't care if I follow your rules If you can cheat, so can I I won't let you beat me unfairly I'll beat you unfairly first
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womberty Registered: Jan '02	Date Posted: 12/17/03 5:17pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	Oh, come on. However bad you think it is, you can't ruin a chat over a cup of coffee, can you? Just say hey, it was cool seeing you again, let's have coffee sometime and catch up.
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Terpmaniac09 Registered: Jan '03	Date Posted: 12/18/03 7:36pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	Yeah. -----signature----- "Ward I Think You Were A Little Hard On The Beaver Last Night." - Mrs. Cleaver "I Can't Wait To Eat That Monkey." - Abe Simpson -Attack of the Clones Trivia Contest-
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DarthBane420 Registered: Jan '03	Date Posted: 12/19/03 3:56am Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	I saw the lunchlady at school today. I gave her a box of chocolates for Christmas. She blushed and said thank you. I blushed too. Do you think she likes me? If she gives you 2 pieces of square pizza instead of 1 like everyone else, you might have an in. -----signature----- AHBY/Knight of the BYS The Big Blue Bane of 3SA and Plunderer of the Pabst AoE Please join me in an effort to bring back serious posting to TFN EPC Representative to Comms & JCC
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debeautimous Registered: Jan '03	Date Posted: 12/19/03 5:27am Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	LOL -----signature----- I am sure an opportunity will present itself - Qui Gon Jinn I love Qui Gon http://boards.theforce.net/Fan_Fiction_Stories--Classic_JC_Board_(Reply-Only)/b10016/10629801/?382 Please read my story!
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Handmaiden_Yane Title: Manager Emeritus Top Games Character Host Registered: Jul '02	Date Posted: 12/19/03 8:29am Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	I like this guy named Joey. I met him about two months ago, and he's funny, Christian, tall, hot...Yeah, anyway. I don't know him as well as I'd like to, but I found out that Joey had had a girlfriend and that they had broken up last week. Fair game, right? Ha. Her name is Kelsey. And he's had a crush on her for two years, and thinks about her all the time. Yesterday I was talking to him about her, and trying to comfort him. He says he's fine. My question is--should I back off (seeing as how he likes her so much, and I'd probably never have a chance) or should I try to win him over by being a compassionate friend? -----signature----- "Always love." She was tiny. About as tiny as a stick of dynamite. Currently gaming: Super Smash Bros. Melee & Sims 3 \| Official Games Forum Index Chick "Now I'm like this big nerd, and everyone's like, yeah, applaud the nerd." -Natalie Portman
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DarthBane420 Registered: Jan '03	Date Posted: 12/19/03 8:45am Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	My question is--should I back off (seeing as how he likes her so much, and I'd probably never have a chance) or should I try to win him over by being a compassionate friend? From your post you come off as a very nice young lady and I want to give you some good advice but you might not want to hear it. The WORST thing a person can do is put themselves into the position of being the "rebound" girlfriend. Obviously this bloke is pining away for the lass that no longer wants him and what could happen scares me. You might find that he will try to use you to make her jealous. This happens from time to time and will only end up getting you hurt. If this guy is so much of a fool he can't see what a good thing he has right in front of him you don't want him anyway. If I were you I would get a guy who would be as dedicated to you as you deserve and then laugh at this bloke as he continues to pine away for a girl that dumped him. -----signature----- AHBY/Knight of the BYS The Big Blue Bane of 3SA and Plunderer of the Pabst AoE Please join me in an effort to bring back serious posting to TFN EPC Representative to Comms & JCC
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Handmaiden_Yane Title: Manager Emeritus Top Games Character Host Registered: Jul '02	Date Posted: 12/19/03 10:14am Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	Thanks, DarthBane420. I'm glad I come off as that kind of person. I appreciate your advice, and I will remain friends with him and wait this out. However, I really don't think Joey is the type to use girls like that. He's really sweet. -----signature----- "Always love." She was tiny. About as tiny as a stick of dynamite. Currently gaming: Super Smash Bros. Melee & Sims 3 \| Official Games Forum Index Chick "Now I'm like this big nerd, and everyone's like, yeah, applaud the nerd." -Natalie Portman
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WMCoolmon Registered: May '02	Date Posted: 12/19/03 3:48pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large - Date Edited: 12/19/03 3:49pm (1 edits total) Edited By: WMCoolmon
	The WORST thing a person can do is put themselves into the position of being the "rebound" girlfriend. Obviously this bloke is pining away for the lass that no longer wants him and what could happen scares me. You might find that he will try to use you to make her jealous. This happens from time to time and will only end up getting you hurt. If this guy is so much of a fool he can't see what a good thing he has right in front of him you don't want him anyway. If I were you I would get a guy who would be as dedicated to you as you deserve and then laugh at this bloke as he continues to pine away for a girl that dumped him. Dear God. The guy just broke up a week ago. Why the hell does he deserve to be laughed at, then? I mean, seriously, I would be more worried if the guy wasn't "pining away" about this girl if he's had a crush on her for two years and she broke up with him. Anyway, as difficult as it may be, it sounds like waiting to try and win him over would be better, so that he'll have time to get over her. Since he's said he's fine, you could also get him annoyed by trying to be a 'compassionate friend' by bringing up the subject of his former g/f with him. -----signature----- "Do you really believe that?" "I do" "Are you willing to die for that belief?" - Serenity Sex happens. Deal with it.
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Terpmaniac09 Registered: Jan '03	Date Posted: 12/21/03 9:46am Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	hmmmm -----signature----- "Ward I Think You Were A Little Hard On The Beaver Last Night." - Mrs. Cleaver "I Can't Wait To Eat That Monkey." - Abe Simpson -Attack of the Clones Trivia Contest-
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Space_Man Registered: Aug '03	Date Posted: 12/22/03 1:42pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	Handmaiden_Yane: A word of caution in playing the "compassionate friend" for too long, however: we don't want to lose sight of the eventual goal of you becoming his new girlfriend -- not just his sounding-board/patient friend/quasi therapist. I’d act the "compassionate friend" role only up to a point, and then you need to make it clear that you have a romantic interest in him. -----signature----- Seek first to understand...and then to be understood. ~ Stephen R Covey
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Quarantine Registered: Mar '02	Date Posted: 12/22/03 1:53pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	I dont understand... I'm a senior in hs. All of my friends have bf or gf except for me. Supposedly i'm beautiful, but I can't believe that. Noone seems to want to date me. To my belief i'm not annoying, arrogent, sloppy, etc. I have no idea what is wrong with me. I haven't really had a bf except for one guy in the summer for two weeks but he was too shy, it didn't work out. I'm nice to everyone. What is wrong with me?
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