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MasterKingsama  1391 posts
Registered: Aug '03
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Date Posted: 12/22/03 1:56pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large - Date Edited: 12/22/03 2:02pm (1 edits total) Edited By: MasterKingsama
honestly, consider your self lucky, 99% of all highschool "relationships" are all bs anyways. Chalked full of drama, lack real substance, eventually end not in lasting commitment, and generally pack you up with baggage that you will wish you didnt have when you start getting into serious relationships later in life.

EDIT: \/ that too

 

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womberty  3669 posts
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Date Posted: 12/22/03 2:01pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large - Date Edited: 12/22/03 2:02pm (1 edits total) Edited By: womberty
Perhaps it's something wrong with the people around you. tongue

Don't worry too much; there's more to life than having a boyfriend or girlfriend. At this stage, you should be more focused on what you want to do in life. Decide what interests you want to pursue, get into a good college - you will find new friends along the way and most certainly will have at least a few romantic options sooner than you think. wink

 

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Date Posted: 12/22/03 2:06pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
True... I suppose I am overreacting. I will find more mature and better things in college.

Plus... I just got 2 decent scholarships.
But man, it sure does get boring in the country. plain

 

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THX3876  3256 posts
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Date Posted: 12/22/03 2:10pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
I haven't kissed a girl in 12 years. Should I just jump off a bridge or what?

 

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womberty  3669 posts
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Date Posted: 12/22/03 2:23pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large - Date Edited: 12/22/03 2:25pm (1 edits total) Edited By: womberty
But man, it sure does get boring in the country. plain

LOL - I hear ya! But for me, it was sort of a mixed blessing. In some ways I regret that I didn't get to interact with my peers as much as most, but I managed to escape high school without major baggage as a result, and I found much better - much more real - friendships in college. (Not to mention the love of my life. love )

My advice would be, once you get to college, be sure to get involved in campus activities that'll give you an opportunity to meet people. You'll be amazed what you have in common with people from all walks of life. happy

Starting a relationship now - during the last year of high school - pretty much guarantees it'll end too soon. I'm not saying to avoid boys, but don't stress out thinking you need a steady guy to take you to prom. There are bigger things in life than high school, and it's always best to keep that in perspective. happy


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I haven't kissed a girl in 12 years. Should I just jump off a bridge or what?

No, I don't think that'll work - only trolls live under bridges. wink

I'm not sure what to suggest for meeting women, though - what have you tried?

 

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Date Posted: 12/22/03 2:25pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Good advice, thanks happy

 

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CuppaJoe  3953 posts
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Date Posted: 12/23/03 6:15pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large - Date Edited: 12/23/03 6:17pm (1 edits total) Edited By: CuppaJoe
Hey, I'm in need of advice, really really badly. Ok, well there's this girl whom I went out with for awhile, and she broke up with me because I told her that I loved her, because she was a little confused by it. Well, ever since we broke up she's been talking with me all the time, which is rather strange, but then again I think about her all the time...And now she's going out with one of my best friends, and I can tell by the way she talks to me, and some other people see it too, that they think she still likes me, but I'm really not sure and I don't know what to do, and I would give anything to be with her but I don't know if she really wants to be with me, but she was kind of flirting with me the other night (playing with my hair, etc.,) so what exactly does this mean? My cousin was talking to her, telling her what I think about her (that she's the most amazing girl I've ever met, things like that) and she said that she was really flattered, but she said she doesn't know what to think anymore.I really want her back, but I really can't hold it in anymore, and I'm worried and confused.

 

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CUBIE_HOLE  1458 posts
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Date Posted: 12/23/03 11:17pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
It seems like she might still like. Any kind of physical contact is usually a good sign. However, it also seems liked you freaked her out. By telling her you love her, it basically says you want something serious. Nothing wrong with that unless she doesn't want something like that, and if she's close to your age, I doubt she does.

She's young(assuming similar age), so she's just starting to really get into relationships. She might not want to restrain herself to just one person(you), because that means not experiencing anything else, and there's so many new feelings and desires that are really starting to come on strong it can be overwhelming.

Because of age, I doubt she knows what she wants, but she wants something, so you just have to wait, that is, if you have a chance.

On a side note, personally I would avoid the situation because she's with your friend. For me, that was something that was always off limits no matter what as a matter of principle. That and friends' sisters should be avoided IMO.

 

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YanetheRedNosedHM-  252 posts
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Date Posted: 12/24/03 2:02am Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Thanks for your advice everyone! I really appreciate it and hopefullé everything will work out.

Happé Holidés!

~~Sillé Yané~~

 

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Nirvana  4828 posts
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Date Posted: 12/31/03 3:41pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
I have a question for you guys......


How do you know if your long distance boyfriend is as faithfull as he says?

I mean, I know he is, I hope he is.... but I would still feel dumb, if he did do something, and I didn´t know about it. I would feel like he was, well like he didn´t care.
The thing is it is newyears eve, and he has not had tme to call me for a while. I feel like he has forgotton me.
I am terrible at explaining stuff.

Help!

 

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FareLenore  7069 posts
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Date Posted: 12/31/03 3:43pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
How do you know if your long distance boyfriend is as faithfull as he says?

You don't. Assume he's cheating, dump him, and get over him.

 

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Nirvana  4828 posts
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Date Posted: 12/31/03 3:48pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Thats what I thought.
But the thing is, he isn´t.

But for some reason, I am uneasy about tonight.
I haven´t hard from him in days.
Surely he wouldent throw 3 years away?

I have just been paranoid about everything this holiday. I guess that I am taking my nerves out on everyone.

 

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JangoMike  3851 posts
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Date Posted: 12/31/03 5:07pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Surely he wouldent throw 3 years away?

I hate to say it like this but...............


...... much to learn you still have............

 

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Nirvana  4828 posts
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Date Posted: 12/31/03 6:03pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
I hope he is different then, because I have sacraficed so much for him. I have been so good. I haven´t even talked to any guys.
I hope he won´t do anything. There is only so much more I can take fro this relationship. A broken hart will hit me so hard in my state, what I have been in lately. Surely there are some guys that are good? Please say there are.

 

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JangoMike  3851 posts
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Date Posted: 12/31/03 6:10pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
Surely there are some guys that are good? Please say there are.

There are some good guys left.....but they are few and far between.

Honestly if it works out for you with this guy then cool. But I wouldnt hold my breath on it if I were you.

 

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