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NJOfan215 Registered: May '03	Date Posted: 11/30/04 8:12pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	i think so, but you need to act on it quickly because if you don't she will get bord and move on to some one else, or she may start to think you're gay. -----signature----- This council has zero tolerance for any sexual deviancy regarding our Jedi Knights.
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Padawan_Jess_Kenobi Registered: Nov '02	Date Posted: 12/1/04 1:04pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large - Date Edited: 12/1/04 1:06pm (1 edits total) Edited By: Padawan_Jess_Kenobi
	Hey everyone! I've been reading this thread, and its great. I think the advice given is some of the best I've ever heard. I have a tiny problem of my own however, and since you guys are so helpful, any advice would be greatly appreciated. Ok, I'm almost 15 years old, and I've liked a guy for 8 years. (O_O, I know) We used to be good friends in Elementary School, and Middle School. But then he moved to another town a few years ago. Since then I've only seen him a few times, and that was randomly. We still talked fine and everything. Now its been about a year since I've seen or talked to him, and I just recently stalked down his number (or what COULD be his number... three possibilites.) I understand that since I haven't talked to him in a year, it would be illogical and wrong to ask him out. However, I have a school dance coming up, and I was thinking about asking him to it (people from other schools can come). The problem is, I have no idea what to say. I'm so nervous that I'm shaking. I think about him everyday, more so lately than usual. I really need help about what I could say to him, and when the right time to ask him would be. sighs I understand that I'm young, and many would think that I don't know what love is. I'm not going to say its love, but I do know that all these years that I've liked him, I've always felt that he's the one for me. There are cute boys at my school that I crush on, but I honestly cannot see myself spending the rest of my life with them. I can see that with this guy. And he may be a bit "plain" looking to most people... brown hair and brown eyes, but I think he's the most beautiful guy in the world. He's not a "bad boy" but a very sweet and funny guy. So I'm sorry for rambling so much, but I'm just SO nervous and shaky. Please excuse any spelling mistakes... as I said, nervousness. Please help me, I really need to call him today. The thought of talking to him is killing me inside... Oh, and I'm not a stupid little teeny bopper... I swear! -----signature----- Obi-Wan, Ewan Fan Club Mandalorian 6 Major TPM DF "You can always trust a dishonest man to be dishonest, honestly it's the honest ones you need to watch out for because you never know when they'll do something incredibly stupid" Captain Jack Sparrow
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Drew_Atreides Registered: Apr '02	Date Posted: 12/1/04 5:47pm Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	....hmmm, well, Padawan_Jess, i think what you'd have to do is take things (as) slowly (as possible)... If it's been a year since you last spoke to him, i wouldn't call him up and, in the first 10 minutes, say "hey, wanna go to a dance?" I'd probably develop some sort of excuse for why you're calling.... Like, say, pretend you're trying to remember an event or person from elementary school..Call him up and say "Hey, do you remember...." and then try to keep him talking to you for a bit..After that, tell him how cool it is to be talking with him again, maybe you could stay in closer contact.. After a couple days of that, you'd get a decent idea of how he feels about you, then you could opt to ask him to the dance (or not).. -----signature----- Be sure to tune in for the Big Giveaway at 9!
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divaSySnootles Registered: Dec '03	Date Posted: 12/13/04 10:34am Subject: RE: Love/romance advice lounge- no question too small, no question too large
	Hi all. I need some advice. I think one of my co-workers is interested in me, but scared of me (shy). We don't see each other every day because we are on separate floors and very far apart. Every now and then, we get a chance to work together on a project, but otherwise we rarely see each other. I have his e-mail, and I'd e-mail him, but I don't know what to say--thing is, I suck at being cordial and social, too! I'm kind of shy, too. I'm interested in him, too, and I'd really like to be friends with him first to find out if we'd get along well and everything. What should I do??? What on earth would I say? I never make friends, unless they approach ME. I want to know how to make this guy my friend, 'cause he's shy too. -----signature----- Star Warz girlz rule. You people scare me.
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