Author Topic: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban
PulsarSkate 
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Date Posted: 5/16 4:39pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban
harpuah posted:
J-Rod posted:
Strilo posted:
That doesn't make straights superior to gays.... nor straight relationships superior to gays.

Doesn't it? Having an ability to create life isn't a big deal? And a big responsibility?


Any idiot can get pregnant. The ability to create life doesn't make one superior to anybody.

The ability to raise a child in a stable and healthy environment is what's important.



Absofrakkinglutely.


To paraphrase Quix (I think), it does not take a married couple to create a child. All it takes, in the most simplest of layman's terms, is the combining of sperm and egg and an incubation time equivalent to 9 months in the womb. You can do that with sex. Everyone can have sex, technically. You can also do that with a variety of other ways and means that all come to the same conclusion - baby. This little tidbit on the different ways to make a baby is quite interesting, if basic.

What is needed to raise a child is someone, or some people, who love it, care for it and provide it with the kind of environment that allows it to grow into a happy, healthy and hopefully stable member of society. It is the person who identifies themself as the parent who raises the child, not their sexual preference

 

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Onoto 
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Date Posted: 5/16 4:53pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban
ellybeanjay posted:
I very highly doubt that anything could be found that satisfied all requirements of everyone all at once.
I know. I was making a funny.


The problem, Pulsie, with using that as an argument is that most of the people who are against gay marriage/child-rearing to begin with see the family as being the core of the earthly spiritual life, and that therefore there are certain morals in play that do take into account the entire situation, including sexual preference and the method of conception. I'm not taking sides one way or the other, but that's the issue.

 

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PulsarSkate 
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:00pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban
I know, Onoto, and I understand the morals of others will differ from mine. I just wanted to get my actual opinion in happy

 

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Darth_Morella 
Registered: Apr '04
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:02pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban
Not directed at anyone specifically but srsly, why are some griping about whether same sex marriages should be allowed or not?
How does that affect you personally? Who are we to tell others whom (and how) to share their lives with?



 

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DarthPoojaNaberrie 
Registered: Jun '05
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:02pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban
yeah i think most people understand the issues (hopefully), but they just feel/know that they are *right* and the other side is *wrong*. that's why i fear there isn't gonna be much middle ground to be had

anyhoo, do i come off as homophobic? it's important for me to know

 

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harpuah 
Registered: Mar '05
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:07pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban

Nah... you actually always struck me as a butch lesbian.

 

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Whitey 
Registered: Jan '03
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:10pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban - Date Edited: 5/16 5:14pm (1 edits total) Edited By: Whitey
harpuah posted:

Nah... you actually always struck me as a butch lesbian.


*dies*

dp4m posted:
Strilo posted:
Quix why would someone go with years of peer-reviewed journals when they can make off the cuff statements that they back up by cherry picking facts that support them?


Hi, I'm the JCC. Have we met? tongue

Also, will you marry me and can we invite all of the people in this thread?


Beat me to it! sad

 

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Strilo 
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:12pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban
To dp4m or to me?

 

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ellybeanjay 
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:13pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban - Date Edited: 5/16 5:14pm (1 edits total) Edited By: ellybeanjay
DarthPoojaNaberrie posted:
do i come off as homophobic? it's important for me to know
Not homophobic so much as intellectually lazy. I got the vibe that it was less about homophobism, and more about the fact that you didn't feel like it was worth figuring out how it'd work.

 

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Whitey 
Registered: Jan '03
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:14pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban - Date Edited: 5/16 5:14pm (1 edits total) Edited By: Whitey
To you, Stri. batting

 

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DarthPoojaNaberrie 
Registered: Jun '05
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:14pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban
harpuah posted:
Nah... you actually always struck me as a butch lesbian.


i'd like to respond to this but which response i go with is entirely dependent upon my figuring out just how much frequenting of other message boards you have traversed. laugh

 

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-RebelScum- 
Registered: Feb '04
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:18pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban - Date Edited: 5/16 5:20pm (2 edits total) Edited By: -RebelScum-
I don't understand the legal niceties so I won't even comment on the issues Jello brought up concerning the California Supreme Court's actions on the issue, but I am happy for the LBGT breakthrough from a purely social perspective.

DarthPoojaNaberrie posted:
ok now i know THIS is veering off even more, but....how 'bout 'dem incestuous relationships? if they're both adults....is it really fair for our society to tell them what they can and can't do with their bodies thinking


This is a bit off topic, but do I think gay marriage, polygyny, and incestuous marriage should all be legal.

Scummy

 

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Ed_Abbey 
Registered: Jan '08
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:25pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban - Date Edited: 5/16 5:25pm (1 edits total) Edited By: Ed_Abbey
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-RebelScum- posted:
I don't understand the legal niceties so I won't even comment on the issues Jello brought up concerning the California Supreme Court's actions on the issue, but I am happy for the LBGT breakthrough from a purely social perspective.

DarthPoojaNaberrie posted:
ok now i know THIS is veering off even more, but....how 'bout 'dem incestuous relationships? if they're both adults....is it really fair for our society to tell them what they can and can't do with their bodies thinking


This is a bit off topic, but do I think gay marriage, polygyny, and incestuous marriage should all be legal.

Scummy


Did you omit polyandry by accident or are you against gangbangs? tongue

 

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ellybeanjay 
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:33pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban - Date Edited: 5/16 5:33pm (1 edits total) Edited By: ellybeanjay
So to make sure I understand, the main arguments against this ruling are:

(a) it's legislating from the bench (because making sure that protected classes have all the rights that the California constitution lays out for them is an abuse of power)

(b) marriage is a religious term (ignoring the religions that define marriage differently from the way that the US currently defines it)

(c) male/female relationships are the only ones that can produce new life (as children conceived for gay couples via surrogates and sperm donors don't count)

(d) if we allow this, then we're running the risk of people wanting to marry multiple partners and siblings, so it has to be all-or-nothing (nothing not including straight marriage, of course)

What else am I missing? I know I'm missing more.

 

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DarthPoojaNaberrie 
Registered: Jun '05
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Date Posted: 5/16 5:36pm Subject: RE: [GOOOOOOOOO CALI] California lifts gay marriage ban
update: i am now taunting a gay friend and rubbing it in that their celebrity crush is getting married in california.

 

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