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Katya_Jade 
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Registered: Jan '02
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:18pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
Wow, Amadeus, I don't think we were reading the same post. I certainly didn't read that he was p.o.'d about this kid committing suicide on his birthday and ruining it. And I'm still looking for the responses that said "have a happy birthday anyway." Yours was the only sarcastic one.

wadda may have woken up feeling great about the day and found out a friend/classmate died. How do you think he'd feel?

Anyway, I send my condolences to this child's family. I know what it's like to lose a close family member.

wadda, I sincerely wish you the best on this day and hope that you can provide solace to the family and friends of the child who died.

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AmadeusExMachina 
Registered: May '02
Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:21pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
It wasn't a rash assumption at all, it was backed clearly by the tone and content of your original post.

Also, by the fact that you titled the thread "It's my 16th birthday today..."

You put that part first, THEN mentioned the kid committing suicide.

And as for balls, I've only got the required two, but thanks for thinking well of me.

Peace.

 

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Red_Oktobur 
Registered: Dec '01
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:24pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
AmadeusExMachina, I'll remember that next time you have a tragic event.

I must say, you really are being inconsiderate to other people's feelings.

If you don't have anything nice to say, than don't say anything.




Wadda, I'm really sorry for your classmate, and for you. Have a Happy Birthday despite it! grin

 

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Liz Skywalker 
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:25pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
guys, chill.


wadda, my condolences. My best friend's father died last year, almost exactly a year ago, and we still haven't quite gotten over it. I can't imagine what it would be like if a friend died.


hope your birthday gets better!

 

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Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:27pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
that's very, very sad. Happy Birthday, btw.

 

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Coolguy4522 
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:30pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
I don't know what bothers me more, AmadeusExMachina's insensitive rude, rash comments and the fact he doesn't apologize after he was proven wrong, or the tragic death of someone that wadda knows. Very sorry to hear that wadda.

 

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AmadeusExMachina 
Registered: May '02
Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:31pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
Yea, I'm being a real heartless monster here...


Let's review.....

1. A child takes his own life.

2. It occurs on someone's birthday, casting a shadow over the day.


As I've said, nothing is wrong with feeling a little bummed out because of the birthday thing, BUT A KID IS DEAD. And you're all, wadda u know included, acting like that's a minor sidenote, and the REAL tragedy is that it ruined wadda u know's mood and his birthday. Your mourning of a person who really wasn't the "victim" of this tragedy in any great way is extremely disrespectful to the kid who is now deceased, and to his family. Think how they'd feel if they read this......to see a classmate of their son complaining about how sad it is, but also the fact that he seems to be complaining instead of mourning, and that he mentioned his birthday in the title and THEN throws in that the kid killed himself.

Some people need to take a look in the mirror before they call ME disrespectful.

 

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Red_Oktobur 
Registered: Dec '01
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:38pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni - Date Edited: 6/5/02 4:39pm (1 edits total) Edited By: Red_Oktobur
What you should really do, Machina, is put yourself in his shoes. You'd probably be in the same boat he was. You'd probably be really discouraged if someone came along and said the very same things to you. Don't even try to tell me you woulnd't react to that, cuz I don't believe that BS.

And why would someone be bummed out because it's their birthday?

 

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AmazingB 
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Registered: Jan '01
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:40pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
Amazing, it's not really "mourning" to come here and say "I have such bad luck, this kid killed himself and ruined my birthday."

Perhaps you should reread what he wrote. I don't recall him saying that, so you certainly shouldn't quote it as such. And since wadda has given us his thoughts and reasoning behind this thread, which ran quite counter to your perceptions, I will leave this alone.

Amazing.

 

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Malazaf 
Registered: Apr '02
Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:47pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
If he was all happy, I bet he was just trying to stop his hand from shaking while he took his pulse. Accidents like that happen. Or, might not have been an accident.

Happy 16th, eh.

Who were the others who died? What from?

 

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Jedi_Solo 
Registered: Jan '02
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:51pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
Why did he die?

 

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eaglejedi 
Registered: Feb '01
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 4:59pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
Hey man, somebody from my school dies every year, not every 2 years (I think). A kid had a heart attack at home last year and was found by his girlfriend when she went to pick him up in the morning. This year, a coach died of a heart attack in the gym office. I'm not sure about the year before that.

 

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FateNaberrie 
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 5:00pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni - Date Edited: 6/5/02 5:06pm (2 edits total) Edited By: FateNaberrie
I almost didn't post in here because of all of the insensitive unneeded Internet DRAMA!, but I really want to give you my condolences Wadda. It's always tragic when someone so young dies, and even moreso when they take their own life. Focus on the fond memories of him. I hope you feel better.
Our Band director died of a heart attack, two days before UIL and a week before our trip to Disney, it's really depressing when someone's death affects a whole community like a school, or like 9/11 affected the whole country.

And in related news, Happy Sweet 16.

 

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AmadeusExMachina 
Registered: May '02
Date Posted: 6/5/02 6:37pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
Amazing, I need to reread what he wrote?


Here's what he wrote.....

"It's my 16th birthday today...and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morning."


He titled it that, which clearly shows what the thought being conveyed was. He acted as if the suicide intruded upon his day. If you think I'm being completely utterly rude and out of line and incorrect, remember that he then posted THIS at the end of his first post...


"Some birthday, huh?"


Yea kid, we're sorry for ya.

 

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LadyNaberrie 
Registered: Feb '02
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Date Posted: 6/5/02 6:40pm Subject: RE: It's my 16th birthday today... and in related news, one of my classmates hung himself this morni
I'm so sorry about your friend Wadda! But in other words, happy birthday.

 

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