A question for the guys...

Its different for J though, as she's explained.

Its ok being single if you've got friends to go out with and have a larf with.

But if you're on your own...?

Not fun.

 

exactly I may be going out with work this month but everyone sticks in they're own little groups and go off so you end up being left by yourself and it's no fun

 

id take you with me dear, it wouldnt be any fun without you.

 

Understood...

I guess I'm just used to doing many things by myself over the years, that I haven't let it bother me so. Not that I haven't been out with huge groups either. It just depends on what's happening...

But I hope you still feel you're amongst friends here J

 

The Art's Centre...

It's okay...it's definatley has that big fish..small pond thing about it...the food wasn't bad though

 

He has to trust you. Without trust it's not really going to go anywhere.

Think of it like grains of sand. If you hold it too tight, it all falls out of your hand. But if you hold it with an open hand, it stays put.

As for going OZ, no probs. Before we broke up my ex was going to go for a 6 months to a year on her own. I was just gonna visit her for a month or so. Neil should remember that, if they don't want to be with you, they're gonna leave you whether you are possesive or not. He should not be so unsure of you.

 

Listen to feckin Socrates there! LOL

 

I haven't been in the arts centre yet, though it's a two min walk from me.

Well it decided I better off without him, as at least I dont ahve to feel guilty about everything I do. Like he didn't want me to get the car journey down with Andy but he was fine telling me about him out on friday night and he ended up dancing with some woman and cant remember what happened.

 

LOL. I'm not really shallow. Well, not all the time.

 

hes a jerk

 

lmao @not all the time

 

Isnt there a course closer to home you could transfer to?

 

it's too much hassle to do that now... plus I dont know if the council will pay for me I may have to pay for the whole course myself and it's expensive.

 

Ahh

How long is the course?

2 years? 3?

 

2 years, I finish it next June

 

Then you would go home after that?

 

Probably by the looks of it.

 

I think getcha self a life - even if it means going to see your mates back home @ weekends or inviting them up to visit you.

You need support and comfort.

Getcha self on equal footing with your fella...what's good for him is good for you, don't wait around to be told what he likes and dislikes. Get on with your life. He may even develop the respect he needs to show you if you do.

If not, I've got Matt Damon's phone number if you want it. Bumped into him in the jam aisle in Tesco the other day.

 

lol
I cant go home on most weekend as I work most fridays and saturdays.
People are welcome to come up and visit me though.

 

paaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarty

 

Hmm that's sound like a plan

Shall we divert the Spelling B this year to Darlington instead?

 

There's not all that much to Darlo. Hell the cinema is poor the better cinema is at teesside park and thats a 20 min journey by car. The best cinema I have seen here is in the metrocentre at Gateshead.

 

I could stay at me ma and pa's..

Next time I'm visting...I'll give you a call..and we'll tackle the art's centre together..we'll act like rich millionares

 

sure thing

that's not hard anyway especially has half of Darlo are Gypos

 

LOL. Gypos. That word always makes me laugh. And then I think of Snatch and laugh even more.