In August of last year, my roommate told me that she had gotten her account hacked and all the money stolen. Well over 5000. Mine got hacked to but got shut down before anything bad happened. Bank of America wouldn't give back the money for some reason. Anyway, she asked me to pay the bills until she got the money back. I agreed, We were in a lease and she was in school. I assumed a few months at worst. Its december 2012 and she is still using me. After going thru my accounts, I never had online accounts in my bank until a few months ago. I assumed we just didn't have the money to survive. Now I realize she was paying credit cards off and opening new ones and buying stuff on Amazon with my accounts. Money disappeared to where god only knows. She has spent 14000 that is what I can track. Not including food or gas if we split it up. I trusted her to do the right thing. Now I found out she wasn't even paying off the bills that I have. I saw a disconnect notice for the electricity and yet she paid her credit card bills off. She is hiding all the statements and bills from me. She no longer has access to my debit card cause she would ask to fill up her card and spend money along with it. Seriously, I had feelings for someone else before her and something changed. But now I don't care. Honestly, cheating on someone is easier then this. Was I just too nice or stupid. She is nice person but has this other side of her. She suffers from depression. Meanwhile, all the stuff in the apartment is hers, the computer, the tv, the furniture. I am ready to kick her and make her leave her stuff. I didn't mind taking care of her. But its the betrayal of trust with my money that is the worse. oh and she decided she was a lesbian. Which meant I had no chance in the world. But she was my friend and honestly, living alone well not so good anymore. But its the betrayal of trust I can't get over. Was I just too nice or plain stupid?