It makes sense, I'm not saying it doesn't. But you're assuming the system is legitimate. When a system is illegitimate and one views it as so, then the concept of being accepted into it wouldn't be viewed as the goal. The goal would be to establish a legitimate system to have all viewed and treated equally. For instance, I don't think the goal of the civil rights movement was so blacks could be treated as whites, it was for blacks to get rights befitting human beings. The new standard will be set to something,but it doesn't need to be a man standard is the point.