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ST Rey Skywalker/Daisy Ridley Discussion Thread

Discussion in 'Sequel Trilogy' started by Pro Scoundrel , Jan 3, 2020.

  1. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    Again…how is trying to “subdue” or control her better? More romantic?
     
  2. Jedi Master Frizzy

    Jedi Master Frizzy Force Ghost star 8

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    Not better, but i see a difference between subdue and kill
     
  3. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    Again—how is him trying to “subdue” her romantic or romantically acceptable?

    If a guy tried to “subdue” me, told me I was “nothing” (and I don’t care if he added ‘but not to me’, he still said it), or said he would “destroy” me—much less threw me into a tree and knocked me unconscious, or murdered his father in front of me—his ass and his **** would be on the curb.

    Not tolerating that garbage is called having self-respect and intelligence. Agreeing to romance the person, even under the guise that he is “reformed”, is called having neither.
     
  4. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

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    Invading her mind for information and ignoring personal boundaries is just teasing her.
    Attacking her with a lightsaber is just romantic foreplay.
    Screaming that he promises to destroy her, and then spends the next year trying to murder her, is just ... flirting.

    See. Nice Guy that Kylo Ren. Someone needs a girlfriend.
     
  5. Darth PJ

    Darth PJ Force Ghost star 6

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    Of course the issue arises because A) The writers are trying to overlay a romantic subplot between Rey and Kylo... and B) They are trying to create a redemption angle...

    Ultimately they don't know who this character (Kylo) really is or should be...
     
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  6. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

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    Its really something. Seeing the fans of the Kylo Trilogy go to such great lengths to defend and diminish, if necessary, his evil. Oh he wasn't really trying to murder her. He just said he was. He wasn't trying to kill her, he was just trying to subdue her, and invade her body and mind in order to 'take whatever he wanted'. And apparently attempted murder doesn't count if the would-be murderer is just bad at it.

    They guy is the villain. But he is treated with care and full forgiveness, preemptively, for any evil action or desire, because they know that he'll be redeemed someday, quickly in the last movie, when this raging narcissist forgives himself because he has a conversation with his imagination. And the trophy for that is clearly a girlfriend.
     
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  7. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    …also, it’s not an assault since she can fight back. In fact, because she fought back and he was surprised that she could do that, he is the real victim. :rolleyes:
     
  8. Darth PJ

    Darth PJ Force Ghost star 6

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    I guess there is a bigger question around the nature of 'evil' and 'redemption'. At his most evil would Vader have killed anyone? He was certainly trying to kill Obi-Wan (ROTS and ANH)... and would have killed Luke (probably) if the need had arisen on Cloud City (possibly). So it's not that Kylo being redeemed isn't an impossibility, or that Ben Solo before his turn was a 'good man'... it's just that the entire thing (from top to bottom) is so badly conceived and written... and ultimately the absolute sticking point is that there is no logical reason why Rey would ever have feelings for Kylo... other than the practical element of her wanting Kylo Ren/Ben being an ally rather than an enemy. It all comes back to the fact that if this is the route they wanted to take, Rey and Kylo should have been written as siblings or 'besties' at the academy etc. Their relationship should have been established first. That's the fundamental ingredient that gives Rey reason/motivation, but alas it's completely missing.
     
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  9. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

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    It's also because redemption wasn't on the table originally, so they didn't set up that story in TFA, or even really, TLJ. The entire thing is just tacked on at the end.

    A redemption story could have worked, I suppose, although I think it would always seem rather redundant and weirdly unnecessary. (for all the fan talk about how a TRIO reunion wasn't ever needed, or doesn't work well, the redemption narrative is even less so).

    It's really just more copy-paste uncreativity on JJ's part. That he could stick with his own concept through to the end is kind of ... sad. Either make Kylo a monster, or don't. Either do a repetitive redemption tale, or don't.

    Far better for the Skywalker Saga narrative would have been for Kylo to be good. Or if he was bad, have him realize his errors in TFA and show how he becomes inspired by Anakin's redemption, and then goes on to rebuild the family name, and the Jedi Order. Show him struggle with the dark side and getting over his faults, obsessions, etc in EP 7. Maybe Rey (a sister, or a fellow student from Luke's academy) plays a major role in that reversal. And then together they take on new enemy.

    It's rather unfulfilling that the Skywalker narrative ends in ruin, with all of them dead, with another evil Skywalker heir, who only manages to be good in the final muted seconds of his life, just for Rey Palpatine to take the name and crown.
     
  10. ScorpioGirl

    ScorpioGirl Jedi Master star 3

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    Okay, just got caught up. So Finn and Rey kissing was against the "rules"? Really? Is that why they had Black/Caucasian couples in the Beauty and the Beast, Lady and the Tramp, and the Little Mermaid remakes, to name a few? Or is Lucasfilm the one who has a problem with that? Oh, wait, there was that Duchess and Duke in the Mandalorian. Or was that okay because it was only one episode, and they didn't kiss?

    Would it be against the "rules" if Rey and Poe kissed? I mean it would have been random, I'll admit, but it would at least be better than Rey and Kylo kissing. Or what about Finn and Poe? Would that have broken the rules?
     
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  11. Daxon101

    Daxon101 Force Ghost star 6

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    You would have to assume TFA even suggested there was more.
     
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  12. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

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    What do you mean 'assume'. They literally kissed. She kissed him. On the forehead.

    That happened.

    But I get it. Another example of ignoring what's going on screen, any time Finn is actually on screen.
     
  13. Jedi Master Frizzy

    Jedi Master Frizzy Force Ghost star 8

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    Isnt kiss on forhead like a friend zone thing
     
  14. Daxon101

    Daxon101 Force Ghost star 6

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    Leia gave more to an injured Luke and he turned out to be her brother.
     
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  15. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

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    You’ve never given your spouse or partner a kiss on the forehead? Never?!?

    it can be for friends, for comfort, or something more, like a building romance and love.
     
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  16. Jedi Master Frizzy

    Jedi Master Frizzy Force Ghost star 8

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    Not on forhead, but cheek i have
     
  17. DarkGingerJedi

    DarkGingerJedi Chosen One star 7

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    Ok. I give my wife a kiss on the forehead all the time. Not a friend only thing. Just means care about a loved one

    in fact ..come to think of it., I have never ever given “just a friend” a kiss on the forehead or anywhere.
     
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  18. godisawesome

    godisawesome Skywalker Saga Undersheriff star 6 Staff Member Manager

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    Rey and Finn’s placeholder names in TFA’s drafts were Sally and Harry (“When Harry Met Sally”), their chemistry was the most paramount thing with their casting and even led to reshoots to further highlight it, Rey was shown wearing Finn’s jacket on SKB, Finn’s attraction to Rey was unambiguous, his paramount importance to her at the end was unambiguous, she chooses to cradle his wounded body in her last moments of there’s no escape from SKB, she swears to see him again and kisses his forehead before leaving, Alan Dean Foster noted the script he adapted for novelization was clearly set them up for romance…

    …And then Foster notes that he was ordered to remove parts of his novelization that helped set up the romance, and the next film has a panicked, insecure freak out about Finn being so close to Rey, desperately wastes a good actress as a new, intentionally less-interesting love interest for Finn, sabotages Finn as much as possible, and starts trying to pimp Rey out to Kylo in the type of low-quality relationship writing that fan-fiction usually avoids, full of toxic and problematic aspects portrayed as good, all while Adam Driver and multiple actors and creators note how things changed between films.

    Seems to me that LFL unambiguously feared the Rey and Finn “rizz” and preached that an abusive, sexist, and parasitic relationship was better than that, all while trying desperately to keep John Boyega from upstaging Adam Driver in the heart-throb department.
     
  19. Daxon101

    Daxon101 Force Ghost star 6

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    But you also care about friends in that way too. Thats the thing. In comparison TFA left things again so incredibly vague that its easy to not see any potential romance there. The kiss on the forehead very much doesn't signify romance. Heck Leia kissed Luke several times in far less subtle ways and that signified way more romantic connection than what ended up happening with Finn and Rey.

    Usually in movies if you want to get your point across you make it a little more obvious, When you go vague and subtle, it leaves everything open to not going that way. Suggesting the idea that it was never going that way in the first place.

    Even ANH set up Luke and Leia as romantic far less subtle
     
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  20. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    Subtle is better than paperback romance garbage like ‘they kissed passionately, absorbed in each other, while the galaxy shook with the depth of their emotion.’

    LOL no.

    LFL chickened out of a Finn/Rey romance because they made the mistake of caring what racists think.
     
  21. TaliaJoy

    TaliaJoy Jedi Padawan

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    TFA seemed like it was written in such a way that the next movie could have the option of building a romance for Rey and Finn or not - just another part of the bizarre decision to not plan out and have clear ideas for the entire trilogy ahead of time. (Yeah yeah I know, OT wasn't totally planned out either and blah blah...but frankly, just because something works once doesn't mean it will always work!) And unfortunately, TLJ didn't even see fit to build upon the friendship between Rey and Finn, which was indisputably there.
     
  22. Django211

    Django211 Force Ghost star 4

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    We're probably never gonna know the real story, but I suspect that Driver becoming an A list actor during the making of the ST might have had something to do with sidelining Finn for Kylo. I don't even know if it was malicious toward Boyega as much as it was realizing Driver was going to be big so might as well focus on him while they had him. Perhaps that's what facilitated the redemption angle.

    During the ST Driver worked with Martin Scorsese, Terry Gilliam, Spike Lee, Steven Soderbergh, Jim Jarmusch, Noah Bombach and Ridley Scott. Driver accepting these projects would have to be known by Disney/Lucasfilm when trying to negotiate schedules, pay rates, locations, etc... These are heavy hitters so Driver blowing up wouldn't be unexpected. During that time Boyega's demand was nowhere near that level and add to that the abuse he was taking from a certain part of the audience I can understand elevating Driver over Boyega.

    I'm not condoning it, I understand billion dollar corporations are going to go with the "safer" choice when it profits are on the line. I don't expect courage from billion dollar companies. It wouldn't surprise me if there were instructions from higher ups than Lucasfilm about the direction of Rey/Finn in response to the online hate directed at Boyega & Ridley in TFA. It's only been recently that Disney has grown a spine as far as casting in The Little Mermaid & Snow White only to be met with cries of woke from probably the same crowd that complained about Boyega, Tran & Ridley years before.
     
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  23. godisawesome

    godisawesome Skywalker Saga Undersheriff star 6 Staff Member Manager

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    I’ve always thought that TFA wasn’t being subtle at all thanks to the sum total of all the stuff it was doing with them, the fact they were the make and female lead /main two human characters, and, as my “clincher”… the “Rey wearing Finn’s jacket” scene actually felt somewhat definitive to me.

    It’s such a quickly shown detail in TFA, yet clearly attached to dramatic meaning in culture (not just pop culture), that I just concluded “They want to make sure we know that the initially touchy and acerbic Rey is completely comfortable taking a jacket Finn’s been sweating in for hours on a cold planet even though that means Finn’s now a little exposed, and even though she wasn’t tolerating his vaguely ‘chivalric’ behavior only hours before.”

    And don't try to do the whole “Well, it’s Poe’s jacket first” thing on this - we all saw Finn tug the jacket free form the wreckage when he thought Poe was dead, and obviously Rey could only get the jacked from Finn with him their to give to it to her.

    …Which kind of leaves me with what was always my reaction to people denying there was any romantic set-up in TFA between Rey and Finn (not apathy or ignorance of it, please note; I’m referring specifically to people claiming it couldn’t possibly be romantic set-up even after it’s been pointed out): that it’s someone trying to cope with their rejection of the relationship on a personal level, whether out of awareness that means Kylo is clearly the tritagonist at best and not the “real” male lead or protagonist (especially if they desperately want the Skywalker kid to be more important), or racism, and using denial as their defense mechanism.
     
  24. Daxon101

    Daxon101 Force Ghost star 6

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    So that jacket got around it seems. Spicy love triangle.
     
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  25. Dandelo

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    Seriously...this isn't a defence you seem to think it is.
     
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