What trait attracts you to people?

For me, the most important traits are personality, intelligence and things in common. I'm not going to lie and say that looks aren't important, but I've seen way too many attractive people that have completely turned me off by the way they act.

 

Intelligence, humour, things in common, and personality

 

The big ones for me are personality, intelligence, humor, and things in common.

 

For myself, a persons looks seem to come after they start speaking, and it kind of depends what comes out. Its amazing how fast a great face can turn horrid just with a few off thinking words spoken.

In the end, its not the hair, or the job, or what other status marker comes along.

If their own true heart felt common ground interests reflect my own, then the rest can just fall into place.

 

For the record, my post in 02, while not as sharp as my posts are today, still stands totally true

 

I voted for personality, looks come next.

 

Personality, intelligence and humour are my priority when it comes to that.

 

I voted all of the above. I think a persons looks get them in the door, after that it's there personality, sense of humor, and common interest that keep things going.

 

For me, it's more than any one thing. It seems to me that it is difficult to categorize these things. Everything works together, if they don't have one, it doesn't matter how much of the other they have.

 

I voted for personality. Intelligence is second, for me.

 

Personality and also things in common.

 

Personality.

 

Personality is a big must. Can't be chasing girls who ultimately have conflicting personalities.

Intelligence is 2nd important to me. Dumb people, or those who deliberately play dumb all the time bug me.

Gotta have some looks to back up the first two. I don't want to call myself shallow, but looks help balance out the other 2.

 

I think financial status has the least to do with it for me.... But I guess it'll come into play later on.

 

Humour. Those who cannot see the difference between what is important and what is not has my pity.

 

to be totally obcessed with peoples looks, finacial status, or money would be incredibly shallow. i went with humor but intelligence came in a close second because i'd rather not have to explain what it means everytime i use a big word(scuse my iq but i hate dumb people)
~Mia

 

Humour, although I almost clicked 'All of the above'. Financial and Social Status aren't important to me, however.

 

Personality counts for so, as does intelligence, you can be the worlds most beautiful person but if you aint got the personality to mach or any brains being with you can get boring very fast.

 

Intelligence and all of the above.

 

Personality, humor, intelligence and looks attract me to people, but above all I look for personality.

 

Personality is the big one, followed by intelligence, humor, and looks. And a love of extremes is always a plus!

 

Mostly all of the above.

 

Humor.

 

Personality, followed by things in common.

 

All of the above, but mostly personality.