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ST Rey Skywalker/Daisy Ridley Discussion Thread

Discussion in 'Sequel Trilogy' started by Pro Scoundrel , Jan 3, 2020.

  1. Avnar

    Avnar Force Ghost star 4

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    For the life of me, I will never understand why they just didn't make her Luke or Leias daughter... It was always the simplest/most interesting way to go.
     
  2. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    I don’t know, nor do I care, why they enjoy it, and I covered some of that in the Kylo thread. However, “I can find a woman or several women who agree with me” does not make a story less sexist. If it did, then no story (or standard, etc.) would ever be sexist. There are women who believe that men are supposed to be the head of the household and that women are supposed to be submissive. Their agreement does not make that belief less sexist.

    Calling other fans “stupid” is a bannable offense—nice effort to try to bait people who disagree with you into making a post against the TOS, but it’s not going to work.
     
  3. JohnWilliamsSonoma

    JohnWilliamsSonoma Force Ghost star 4

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    I'd just like you to tell me when Rey entered into an abusive relationship with Kylo
     
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  4. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    Early in TLJ when she tried to fix him.

    If you are going to try to play semantics and “b...bu...but that wasn’t a relationship,” don’t bother. You don’t get to “win” this one and pretend that I’m “wrong.”

    The Rey/Kylo dynamic was a “good girl fixes bad boy through romance” story. Period. @Darkstrider acknowledged as much and started this conversation.
     
  5. Darkstrider

    Darkstrider Jedi Master star 4

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    Huxlo, or what's it called, supporters got nothing so that statement is not valid. Not everyone was fan serviced.
    So if they fanserviced reylo it must be either because reyloers are not a minority and/or they don't consider reylo as toxic. And if they (the creators of ST) don't consider reylo toxic they must have some material back up for that such as GA opinion research on the topic or, i don't know, the comprehension of creators not making it toxic in the first place.

    So presented in books is or isn't important? Or is important only when it undermines reylo but not when it fortifies it? *even more confused now*

    Lol, i have to make the joke here but having Luke catch that lightsaber (on film) they have technically made cannonically feasible for Force Ghosts to interact with the real world e.g. a human in such a way :D

    How do you know that isn't in the works?

    It is human nature. Which is why it is a romantic stereotype.

    A question, if you don't mind, since I have seen you bring the people-who-think-Leia-should-be-nicer-are-sexist-misogynists presumption a few times now:
    Han in ESB tells that to Leia. That she should be nicer.
    Is he a sexist and misogynist?

    Tell that to Kanji klub. There is anything positive in shaming people for liking what they like. However "bad" it may be for them. Or implying all who like Reylo support abusive and toxic relationships.
    Maybe one day we can ban chocolate too and become even healthier society...oh and coffee...coffeine is a drug, n'est ce pas?
    Things are not black and white. Shades of gray...more than 50 I'd say.

    Can you please clarify what you mean here? That romance isn't the characteristic of male centric movies or that SW always was a male centric movie? Or both?
     
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  6. JohnWilliamsSonoma

    JohnWilliamsSonoma Force Ghost star 4

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    Nah, she specifically rejects the abuse when he gaslights her about being nobody but not to him. I know that info isn't convenient to your narrative though.
     
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  7. christophero30

    christophero30 Chosen One star 10

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    I complain about being labeled a toxic fan for not liking certain recent developments so I suppose I must be consistent and not lump all Reylos in together.
     
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  8. Darkstrider

    Darkstrider Jedi Master star 4

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    Nice try.
    I only acknowledged that this is how their relationship is considered.
     
  9. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    —No, it is not “human nature,” unless you subscribe to the sexist viewpoint that women are pure, that we are naturally good, and naturally healers, and that men are naturally bad, stupid, and evil and need a good woman to “fix” them. None of that is true. Systemic sexism has led some societies to believe that it is, however, which is why the trope happened. It needs to die though. In the 21st century we know better.

    —Han actually was sexist in ANH and ESB. The writers got away with writing him that way, and I give the writing a pass, because it was 1980. There is no excuse now, nor do I think his and Leia’s early story would or should be handled the same way if it were written now.

    —I don’t care what other people watch, and there are about 87266 stories about “good women fixing bad men” that aren’t going anywhere. There was no need to write another one. And I’ll see your “accusing people of supporting abusive relationships” and raise you “accusing people of being scolds or too stupid to understand storytelling for calling out the abuse.” My point on the story trope is that the belief itself, that “women are pure and are responsible for fixing bad men”, has bled out into larger society. In fact I would say it started there and went into stories. And that belief *in the real world* is dangerous, while it may not be when solely relegated to stories.

    —If “chocolate cures cancer” were a belief that spread throughout society and was still prevalent among society despite modern knowledge to the contrary, and stories were still promoting it, I would call that out too.

    —I was told that Star Wars was always a male-centric movie, that female-centric movies include romance as a predominant feature (so-called “exciting” toxic romances specifically), and that Star Wars “needed” Reylo to “bring in women fans” and that it’s great that Reylo made Star Wars more “female centric.” I disagree with all of that, but that was the narrative.



    You would have a point if she had not kissed him at the end of TROS, proving my “narrative” correct.
     
  10. JohnWilliamsSonoma

    JohnWilliamsSonoma Force Ghost star 4

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    You are acting like Rey stayed in an abusive relationship and loved Kylo into being a better man. The exact opposite is the case. She never gives herself to him, never sticks around. Kylo’s parents turn him to the light and then he runs toward Rey to save her in her greatest time of need. It was the love of his parents and his love FOR Rey that saved him.


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  11. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    What I saw of Kylo’s behavior throughout all of the movies until that act was not “love for Rey.” And if Rey had done anything other than kiss him on the mouth—if she had said a “thank you” through tears as he died, or had hugged him—it would have worked. The mouth kiss looked like pretending the rest of the movies had never happened and that she was just waiting for him to be “fixed” (by her “pure” example) so she could romance him.
     
  12. JohnWilliamsSonoma

    JohnWilliamsSonoma Force Ghost star 4

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    So she was waiting for him to be fixed or she was actively involved in the fixing?

    Not sure where you're getting this Rey is pure idea. The Last Jedi is the one movie that actually gives her flaws, by making her emotional neediness a liability for her. And then TROS focuses on her anger which is spiraling out of control. Did you have a problem with Luke's moral purity as well?
     
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  13. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    The “emotional neediness” was irritating, and it has been spun as a positive, not a flaw, because it made her try to reach Kylo.

    And she was both waiting for him to be fixed and actively involved in the fixing by being open to listening to his nonsense (before she slammed the door) and by “inspiring” him.

    And I had a problem with Luke’s moral purity when he fixed and married Mara Jade. Not in the films, although he was not my favorite character, that was Leia.
     
  14. Jedi Master Frizzy

    Jedi Master Frizzy Force Ghost star 8

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    Simple Luke was a jedi and jedi are not supposed to have children, they are monks. Even GL didnt like Luke having children. The only way she was going to be a Skywalker is trough Leia.
     
  15. Darkstrider

    Darkstrider Jedi Master star 4

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    I actually prefer this reasoning. Love redeems, true, but his parents love. A true unconditional love. I can also argue he loved her unconditionally too, but that in Kylo's thread.

    And that reasoning also then favors Rey by liberating her from that role of a good girl falling for bad boy trope. I kinda like that. :)

    @anakinfansince1983 I am not raising you anything, I am just disagreeing that everything romance related we see in star wars is misogynist and/or sexist. I really don't think that was ever an intention of anyone.
     
  16. Jedi_Fenrir767

    Jedi_Fenrir767 Force Ghost star 4

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    If you diagree that a lot of the romance in Star Wars is misogynist or sexist I think you need to look up the definitions of those as much as I enjoy the OT Han and Leia have some serious problems if you look at it form a 2020 POV but is overall positive. Anakin and Padme have a ton of problems as well that fall into the misogynist and sexist category. Their confrontation on Mustafar. We haven't even talked about Kylo and Rey here yet but that's been done all over this thread. Star Wars definitely has a problem with romance period you can dive into both the new and old canon as well there are lots of issues their. I think the best relationship we have gotten was in Lost Stars so overall I think we have like one really good relationship in all of Star Wars so yeah it's not doing well at all.
     
  17. christophero30

    christophero30 Chosen One star 10

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    I agree the ESB Han/Leia dialogue is a bit sexist but Leia gives it right back to Han. A lot of the dialogue was written by Leigh Brackett, who wrote some Cary Grant romantic comedies, so we're going back to the 1940's/50's dynamics on that one. Still, both characters evolve, and it's played mostly for laughs, and is of the time period.
     
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  18. anakinfansince1983

    anakinfansince1983 Skywalker Saga/LFL/YJCC Manager star 10 Staff Member Manager

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    I would add Kanan and Hera as a good one as well.

    But yeah, ROTS Anakin and Padme is almost as bad as Reylo in terms of antiquated sexist stereotypes.
     
  19. Jedi_Fenrir767

    Jedi_Fenrir767 Force Ghost star 4

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    That one completely slipped my mind. Yes Kanan and Hera is also very good.

    I agree Han and Leia definitely works and if you look at it from a 1980s lenses there aren't many issues with it but it's very much a product of the times and something that wouldn't be acceptable in 2020
     
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  20. Alliyah Skywalker

    Alliyah Skywalker Force Ghost star 5

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    Oh come on. Just because not every crackship got a scrap doesn`t mean they didn`t hand out table scraps to lots more people than Reylos. Who do you think Rey Palpatine was for? People who didn`t like her to be a nobody. And who do you think Rey "Skywalker" was for? People who wanted her to be one. None of those things was done with starry-eyed Reylos in mind. The smooch was.

    They tried to fanservice - nearly - everyone a little bit in the movies because they didn`t want another super-divisive reaction to it. It was more intended to be happy go lucky fluff. But Reylos were never anything special in terms of being serviced there. Otherwise they would have gotten the entire movie they wanted they wanted, including an endgame and everyone else would have gotten nothing.

    I highly doubt they any research beyond going online and searching "so, what seem to be the most common complaints about the last movie". And GA research would be worthless because GA is like my best friend who still, to this day, despite seeing all three movies and liking them can`t even remember the names "Rey" and "Kylo". She watches the movies and then forgets those characters even exist. She couldn`t care less about their ship happening or not.

    Books and comics in Star Wars have always been made for more of niche fandom. Lucasfilm can spout whatever they want of everything being of equal value but if most people never read the books or comics and never know of their existance, it`s a pretty moot point.

    So the backpedalling from the kiss in a novel holds the same relative value as any Reylo novel would hold. Fans of the material would seek it out and others wouldn`t even know it existed. It is much harder to not know a billion dollar movie exists. You often at least catch something from it, even by accident, from seeing a trailer or fans talking or some marketing stunt.

    Sure. I wouldn`t care less if they did. I couldn`t care less that fanfic is written about them either. I think both characters, individually and together are devoid of any narrative value.

    Because if it was such a white-hot property they were desperate to pursue, they would have announced it right away. And in today`s day and age, you can forget that if they had signed on Driver for more, it would have remained a big secret. Not to mention that would have defeated the purpose of marketing.

    That`s how I know that specific thing is not in the work even remotely right now.
     
  21. Triad Moons

    Triad Moons Jedi Knight star 2

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    [...](Non-Black) FinnPoe shippers are absolutely obsessed with Oscar Isaac and Poe Dameron and the discussion of the relationship's potential itself was largely centered around whether Poe might be gay, with little consideration/discussion about Finn's potential sexuality (he's almost treated like the heterosexual object of affection that's "converted" into a m/m romance). Finn is effectively an ornament, so the end result is a fanbase that's largely racist and thrives on fetishizing Finn's time as a slave with the First Order (as a segue for smut fics), and turning him into a Mammy who comforts 32 year old Poe like a child.
     
  22. christophero30

    christophero30 Chosen One star 10

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    Shipping always struck me as a fan fringe thing. which is fine; whatever floats your boat but it shouldn't be something that drives or influences the filmmakers imo.
     
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  23. Tatooine Twilight Twins

    Tatooine Twilight Twins Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    From my vantage point if that was the case I would have even a smaller regard for the sequel trilogy than I already have. I can't think of one Rey-Kylo onscreen moment that's truly memorable other than the one that takes place in the red throne room. And that was more because of how good the fight was rather than how Rey or Kylo interacted. Truth be told that even over the course of three movies the two of them rarely spent time in the same frame other than to mostly battle or be antagonistic towards one another. And there was no magic between Ridley and Driver that would even lead me to begrudgingly concede that while I disagreed with the pairing the two had an undeniable chemistry. Nope. Nothing like that at all from what I saw although this is all subjective anyway. In my opinion Ridley's strongest work in the franchise wasn't when she was working alongside Driver.
     
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  24. Darkstrider

    Darkstrider Jedi Master star 4

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    I like Han and Leia romance even in 2020. It simply works for those characters. The witty lines, teasing humor, sarcasm.
    How I always remember them (specially during the courtship ANH and start of ESB) they behave as equals, no hesitation or false consideration of some societal norms, behaving kinda similarly foolish in denying the evident attraction towards eachother (foolish in love), wearing that facade (or mask if you will) of apparent disinterest. But not being able to not react to one another. I thought it kinda progressive for the typical romances of the period. Never thought it sexist or mysoginyst. Why, Han is the first of the two who actually owns up to his emotions.
    Perhaps I really do need to look up the definitions of the terms. As well as to rewatch it to see who starts first with teasing...
     
  25. alwayslurking

    alwayslurking Jedi Grand Master star 4

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    TLJ reads very much like a Reylo fanfic. I remember when TLJ came out, someone accused RJ of stealing from their fanfic. Clearly that was a ridiculous accusation, but it did amuse me greatly that TLJ had so many fanfic tropes that his movie (even coincidentally) overlapped so much with a shipper fanfic.
     
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