I need advice............

I am friends right now with people that are not like me except the one who likes star wars, Analia_Ary who is also on TFN. And i want to be friends with this other group too cause i would fit in with them, they are goths i am too and i hang out with poeple who aren't. And i very much want to be friends with the goths, but they don't talk to me, but they smile at me and look at me cause i am like them. But how do i become friends with thtem and break the ice i am too shy to talk to them first though. help


or maybe i should just give it time sinse i have only been in school for a few weeks And i have only been goth for those few weeks and been trying to get their attention?

 

hot topic is evil, I hope you know that.

 

hottopic =/= goth

 

So, you're too shy to talk to them first? How do you propose to break the ice? Just go up, say hello, mention that, like them, you're a tormented soul who can only come close to showing inner sorrow through dress, and I am sure they'll love you.

 

Go up and hit one of them. Good ice-breaker.

 

Thats where i get all my clothes.

 

Hot topic does not = Goth, I get all kinds of stuff there and I'm definitely not Goth.

 

well if you get the goth clothes there then it = goth Like tripp pants and bondage pants

 

I dunno. I got a Bob Ross t-shirt there, and is anyone more goth than Bob?

 

LOL, I got one of those too! I don't consider him Goth..

"This tree needs a little friend!"

 

a little friend on a cross, who listens to The Cure. Bob=Goth.

 

ok i did not make a thread about bob or hot topic i made a thread about needing advice

 

I dunno. I got a Bob Ross t-shirt there, and is anyone more goth than Bob?

omg I need that

 

You go up to them and introduce yourself. Pick a casual topic to comment on. Your goal, then, is to say something which allows them, who are presumably less shy, to help continue the conversation. I can tell you that it'll be scary and very difficult to approach them.

Disclaimer: the above instructions have not been tested.

 

why would it be scary they are not scary to me, its not like they wear white makup or look like marilyn manson?

 

Jedi Council Code Item #TXF-1138: Why advice threads are allowed, do not expect any actual advice to come of them. More likely your thread will degenerate into whatever people want to talk about, but don't want to make a thread for.


It's in the TOS.

 

good for you

 

"omg I need that "

Sorry, the shirt is exclusively for good looking people. It's in the TOS.

 

LOL, I just realized Bacta is probably the funniest-looking person on the boards.

It's in the TOS:

"Girls who visit the Jedi Council, funny-looking"

 

white guy falls in poop, classic element of comedy. now is where we throw our heads back and laugh. ready?

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Mallgoth.

 

why would it be scary they are not scary to me, its not like they wear white makup or look like marilyn manson?

I guess you're not really shy then.

 

Whatever you do, don't go up to a group of goths all at once and say hello. That would be asking for trouble, as a group they would be on the defense of their click, and probably just make fun of you. However if you have one of these people in a class with you, try talking to that person first, become friends with one of them, in a one on one conversation. This way you aren't someone desperately seeking acceptance(in their eyes) but just another person with the same interests.

GOOD LUCK.

 

Talk to them. If they dont like you its they're loss and just think things could be alot worse.

 

Mmmmm... goth girls... pleasant thoughts...